Yes but it doesn't matter what i put her in or anything even holding her while doing stuff isn't enough she wants constant attention... Cant even look at my phone or watch tv while holding her she wants me looking at her and stuff

That's not the right cry it out method. That one is just going to cause mistrust towards the parents. The better cry it out method is that when they cry you wait a few seconds before attending to them and each time make that wait period a few seconds longer than the last until the baby has found a way to self soothe

Well of course there's certain situations that wouldn't be safe, but it definitely is a life saver. Sometimes babies need to be close to mama even though they're not in the womb lol. And when they get a little bigger you can back carry which is the best too :) do you have a seat like a bouncy seat or something you can put her in so she's close and can see you?

I refuse to carriy her when im around hot food and stuff and when i using cleaning supplies or even while im in the br that is a private place the only peace i get. Not to mention its extremely hard to do anything with a baby stuck on you its like being pregnant all over again lol

baby wearing is the way to go! mommy and baby are happy :)

smartest thing i did was get an Ergo. i know when she's just faking/whining and for that I'll leave her. but nothing more than that.

I did the cry it out with my son who is now almost 5 and he's was/is perfectly fine. there comes a time when you need time to your self

Baby wearing saved my life. Sometimes certain babies are high needs or they're going through a period where they need you more for whatever reason. Maybe look into a carrier just so you can get a few things done and to save your sanity ❤️

Shes not a newborn either

All I'm saying is she normally always crys and when we pic her up she immediately stops when we put her down she immediately starts crying harder after we held her for over an hr.. She's full clean and everything. Cant just keep running to her constantly i dont end up eating till almost 5pm after getting up early and hardly ever get to pee etc. Idk :(

My sons pediatrician says the cry it out method is complete bullshit and it's impossible to spoil a newborn. I always respond to my son crying, no matter what.

LOL BULLSHIT!! That article is fucking nonsense! What it's explaining is NOT the proper cry it out method, whatsoever!!!

I don't know how I feel about it. I mean I get her when she cries I hold her play with her read to her. She has plenty to eat diaper change etc obviously no pain. I put her down to go eat or pee or something and she immediately cries.. I pick her up she stops put her now screams. She has a temper for sure. Idk what to do sometimes

We do the "cry it out" method often not like they explain above. But if I know she's okay, not in pain, or doesn't need a diaper change, I don't give in to her little whines. I started that fairly early, but didn't let her cry for long or scream bloody murder. Now that she's a year I let her go a little longer, again not screaming bloody murder. Everyone has different preferences, that's just mine.

Personal thoughts: absolute bs. Babies need their parents. I've never heard a mother look back and say, yeah you know I held and cuddled my kid way too much. I'm a firm believer in my baby's cries and that they when they're crying they need something. Even if that something is just to be held. Hence why we're an attachment parenting and baby wearing family. There's also a lot of research on cry it out and how it's detrimental to a growing babe :(