I am so hurt.... I was just told by 2 nurses and my dr that I was fat, over weight, and shouldnt be…

I'm sorry to hear that but I'm sure you're doing a fantastic job! Congratulations on losing that weight, shame on the Drs for not being considerate of your feelings. Losing weight is hard especially while pregnant but you did it, be proud ❤️

I agree .... Find new doctors bc there not suppose to shame you and your personal living situation is none of there business ... I would report them... Hell to the noooooo....your doing good .... Keep your head up you got this girl 😉@may4jessie

thank you. it really has been hard especially while fighting depression I just dont think its right that they act like that with someone who is pregnant much less battling with depression

@canaryv,

It sounds like you are doing amazing, sometimes doctors don't realize the things they say aren't actually helpful but hurtful. Do they know your past as far as the changes you made to lose weight beforehand? Don't let them get to you too much, stay positive you're doing a great job! And as far as your living situation I mean trust me there's plenty of people in 10x worse situations than whatever yours may be, that part honestly isn't even their business anyways smh stay strong for your little one, hope you feel better!!

im trying but its so hard @christinaantoinette

I told her how much weight I have lost and that I have been placed on bed rest due to a fracture on my ankle do it has been hard to get things done but they say its all an excuse for being lazy @ariesbaby16

I'm pretty sure they can't talk to you that way as a doctor, telling you that you're making excuses to be lazy? Omg girl you need to make some complaints and be looking for a new physician that's crazy! I'm sorry you have to deal with that :(

@may4jessie, I'll drop kick those sorry ass doctors for you 😤

Depression sucks, I've had my battles and I've seen my mom give up a few times to it. It's no joke. I'd definitely file a complaint against them.

I'm 216 and they haven't said nothing to me....yet. I have a wic appointment today I'll see how I weigh last time I weigh I only gained .6 oz

oh I will be filing a complaint its bs to say those things I just looked at them and I swear that I would of punched them if it wasnt for my grandma being with me @canaryv @ariesbaby16

I only gained 1lb in 3 weeks like I dont understand how im doing bad @liamsmom2013

:( I have no clue I worked in a retirement home one of the residents was a old ob nurse like 50 years ago she told me to my face if I wasn't so fat I would get pregnant... I know how u feel tho

don't listen to those harsh words your very Beautiful

@may4jessie, Ignore them and file a complaint. You're doing awesome judging by what you wrote above!

GET A NEW DOCTOR! ! WTF????

if... even IF you're considered overweight as per their "bullshit charts" that is NO WAY to speak to you.. how DARE they??? I'm infuriated for you... keep doing what you're doing. Stay healthy and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. Baby will be here soon and your world is going to turn upside and sideways... lol

F+×÷ them!!! xoxoox

you are beautiful!

thank you all so much it really took a toll on my but thankfully the ultrasound tech was amazing and helped me out as well as all of your kid words. I know I have to continue to loose weight but for right now I need to worry more about enjoying my last few weeks of pregnancy thank you all @ariesbaby16 @canaryv @liamsmom2013 @christinaantoinette @momofsoontobe4 @rgaine @twomommiesnursery

I know people probably said it in every previous comment, but don't even start listening to them! It's total nonsense. I'm totally a metric person so I can't turn pounds to kilos in my head, but it's clear that they are wrong. With my son I started of at 66,6 kilos (that's why I remember) then, after feeling sick for almost 2 months I lost 3 kg. And that's when I came to a doctor for the first time! And of course they didn't care about my previous weight so they counted my pregnancy weight gain from the lower point. And so they thought I'm gaining too much. I was sick of it every single time! And I knew they're wrong but they make you feel so vulnerable... But all they actually care about are stupid numbers. If they look a bit further, if they were interested in your history they wouldn't act like this. So my advise: try to find a better doc, but don't try to hard because your best doctor (best friend, best family) is YOU yourself. Count on yourself and listen to yourself. Others don't care about your health as much as you do, so trust yourself on that! You never have to starve during your pregnancy (or any other time btw). You feel like you eat healthy and naturally for yourself? Just keep on doing it and don't worry! You're doing great!

Give me that fucking doctors number Ima rip his ass a new one

I'm 5'1 and I was 166 pre pregnancy . I was considered obese for my height. To everyone else I looked like another Cuban women lol. Then during the first month of pregnancy I dropped to 145. Stayed like that till just this month where I gained 5 lb. my doc is like why aren't you gaining enough. I told his ass "well I eat like a fucking monster , why don't you tell me!?" My man got defensive to. As long as your body is ok and you know ur baby is eating and healthy fuck the doctor some times they don't have bed side manners