need some personal opinions well a while ago i made a post about my sister whom my mom does…

I would go to that party and act like everything is just fine. That kills people. If you don't go your probably just going to get talked about in your absence. When you act like your so happy and nothing bothers you about stuff that eats the shit out of other people they can't stand it. And that is by far the best karma.

Oh wow. If you want to go for the kids then do it but if she said to stay away from them and threatened you I really wouldn't. Why does a one year old need chuckee cheese and Disney.. Not even old enough to really enjoy it in my opinion.

@sh334, @mommy2be15 i dont want to go at all

i think it's a waste of time

her daughter can't even play games or anything

i told my husband if he wants to take them he can but I'm not going

and I'm sure he's not gonna go either

I say go. I get your issues with your sister, but your kids shouldn't not have a relationship with their family because parents can't get alone. my mom has said 2 sentences to me since getting pregnant, but I've never stopped her or any other member of my family from seeing my son. I know how much it sick being a child and feeling like you have to choose your parent or other family member. it's no choice a child should have to make

i didnt say they couldnt go tho @emily18234 my husband can take them

i just dont want to go and my husband is telling me im wrong

it's not about me so why do i need to go

because it is your responsibility as a parent to encourage a relationship with their family. can your mom or someone else going to the party pick them up?

yeah. ..my husband lol or my mom @emily18234

The way I see it is that if you're going to the party it isn't for your sister it's to be there for you niece. (yea the party location is pretty dumb for a one year old but still .) A niece needs an aunt and from what it sounds like there's going to always be problems but you shouldn't stop trying to be there for your niece just because of stupid family problems. and siblings always fight and you're mad now but you guys might make up and you're gonna regret not being their for your nieces very first birthday.

@nikolaismommy, my daughters first birthday was in December and she wasn't there or anything

I've tried with her on numerous occasions and it's always drama I'm so done with that

I'm pregnant i don't need the stress

she's having it feb 9th which is also our oldest sisters twin boys bday AND her due date for her new baby

yeah all my moms daughters had babies like right on top of one another's baby lol

@domi0817, totally forgot you were pregnant. yeah the problems are always going to be there so might as well deal with it after you're no longer pregnant or the stress is going to send you into early labor. Your husband can take your kids to enjoy themselves and you can send her a nice little gift and call it a day. but hope it gets better for you!! family drama like that isn't good for anybody especially the children, I hope your sister sees reason before its to late.

@emily18234, @mommy2be15 @nikolaismommy, well now I'm not even sure if there will be a party

see my mom was paying for the party and after she saw it was 15 per kid and that there isn't much for a 1yr old she recommended monkey joes the inflatable bouncy place its cheaper and more safe things for a 1 yr.old to crawl on and stuff

well my sister lost her shit on my mom saying i want to have it at chuckee cheese thats where i want to have it in not going to monkey joes, she (her daughter) likes chuckee cheese !

i was like biiiisssshhh oh heck no how a 1yr old like chuckee cheese

My mom doesnt have to pay for this party at all

you dont have any money so shes doing u a favor! smh shes so wrong

you're sister is such an immature bratty adult, I feel bad for your niece bc she's going take right after your mom. but I've worked at CEC before and I've hosted parties and I've died handling a parent a $500 receipt , it's sad and they charge for the air you breath. 😒

it's crazy @nikolaismommy i wouldn't even want to ask my mom.to do that being that she does everything else for her but shes not that considerate

defiantly. I understand accepting the help someone gives you, we all need help sometimes but your sister is latching unto your mom and sucking every penny out of her. a nice little family gathering at home with cake and food is SO much better and a thousand times more special. I've told parents that every time they wanted to book a party with me. Kids so young won't remember or care a about any of it.

right @nikolaismommy that's her that wants that not the baby