I get so excited when I see a outfit or onesie I want to get but I get discouraged because after…

you should buy her a keepsake like a bracelet or something that you can get one to only if you want. like a mommy and me set @wilson123

I want to but I just feel like I don't have a right to give her anything. the family has promised me I can see her anytime they wouldn't keep her away but sometimes things change once they are here

I can only imagine what your feeling and going through since your choosing adoption.. Good luck

its rough. but thank you I need good vibes some days @michelleaaliyah

why adoption? just curious... don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable

@kitk4t, no your fine. we just both decided it would be a better life her cause we don't have steady income an the place we stay could be taken by probabte at any whim an leave us homeless . I want her to have a life where she never worries about anything and gets all she ever wanted out of life

aw you are doing the responsible thing! much respect. hang in there girly 😘 @wilson123

@kitk4t, thank you. I get a lot of negativity for it but I know this is for the best

if the adoptive family is willing to let you do it I sat go for it! like what @nasirmommy said a bracelet should do

You are so brave! Don't let people make you feel bad for wanting what's best for your baby. Adoption is very respectable and you are blessing a family that may not be able to have a baby of their own. I think that's amazing. As long as the family is okay with it I think it's a good idea :)

God Bless people like you. I have a friend of mine that couldn't ever have children and because of wonderful people like you she finally got a chance at being a mommy. I know it's hard but God has you. I agree with the others buy her a bracelet and maybe write a letter explaining how much you love her and ask the family to give it to her one day. My friend's baby's mom did and they are so glad to have apart of their life.

thank you @rochelleyayy & @our-little-crab-family its really hard with the due date basically around the corner. its breaking my heart and my family is heart broken but they know its for her well being. honestly after her I'll probably just get my tubs tied cause this is going to leave an emotional scar