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I need advice.. my baby's father hasn't been to any of the doctors appointments. He knows that I have had one at least…

I need advice.. my baby's father hasn't been to any of the doctors appointments. He knows that I have had one at least once a month and then since I was 26 weeks I've had one every week. He's never asked what they've said or anything. He thinks that him asking to come see me at my house once a month counts as him being involved with the pregnancy and when we go to court for custody and child support the judge will be in his favor cause he tried to come over and I never wanted him to. Mind you since I was 8 weeks pregnant he's had a girlfriend and since then got an apartment together and now they're engaged. I never wanted him to come over because I didn't see the point of him just sitting at my house when he never came to the doctors appointment. Do you think the judge will look down on me because I didn't want him to come to my house?

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amymabundio

Amy SanchezМама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

lol your good

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laurenmessenger

lauren messenger

Continue to reach out for the doctors appointments, and if he denies SCREENSHOT & SAVE !!! also , tell him coming to your house isn't really necessary if the baby isn't even born . It'd be one thing to come visit or something , but you are still pregnant !

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nyckolle00

NicoleМама сына (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)

get your ducks in a row girl you don't want to take any chances. I hope the best for you hun and like they ^ said document everything and keep every text I'd even document when he calls and what you talk about.

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djsmommy0516

KaneshaМама двоих (1 год, 46 лет)

agree @mommy_thatgirl

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mommy_thatgirl

Teresa

Document everything about the Dr appointments and communication. If you are not together.. there is no reason for him to be allowed in your home!

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raemeg

MaggieВ ожидании первенца

No! it's not like he's coming to see the baby and you declined. no reason for him to see you, it shouldn't be a problem at all!

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