I am 32 weeks pregnant and well my relationship with my husband has been everywhere and well today I seen he was watching porn on his phone and he said he was working and couldn't text me but how do you have time to watch porn ? I don't understand it like if he was working what even made him want to watch it ?
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The problem Isint him watching porn I watch it too but it's just him hiding and lying about it @babyreeves
I don't understand why you have a problem with him watching it? I mean, I get that it is your feelings and everyone is entitled to their own. not trying to discredit that. I just can't relate. Sometimes (most of the time now a days) I don't want to have sex. And I don't expect my boyfriend to just go cold because I don't want to be intimate. I know that he doesn't wish I look like any of those girls or want me to do the things that those girls do. So I don't understand why someone would be insecure about it. TMI but I can't get off masturbating without porn, either. And sometimes it can really help spice up your sex life if you try it together. If he refuses to be intimate with you and opts for that instead, I could understand feeling slighted. Unless you always turn him down and maybe he just doesn't want to feel rejected again? As for it being at work, sometimes they just have down time in the bathroom lol. My ex husband was notorious for that. I guess every relationship and situation is different and you find what works for you.
Nothing wrong with a hubby watching porn as long as that is not their priority!
I've caught my bf so many times and no matter what there's lies and excuses or he blames it on me. then there's him messaging girls on meet me which makes me feel worthless and I don't want my son around that...
ive caught my husband a lot watching porn and the worst part is he lies about it " one of the guys at work must have used my phone" but now instead of watching porn we try and spice up our sex life. I use to get mad, but we finally talked about it and he doesn't do it anymore, if he does he's sneakier at it.
I just think my hubby is scared of rejection like sometimes it's unnecessary like just ask me don't assume things he sometimes thinks I'm turning him down and stuff when I'm not
Me and my husband never had a talk about that until I found out he was watching porn it odvi made me cry and feel ugly but bc I never said it bothered me I just told him how I felt and he never did it again. He was super embarrassed for getting cought anyways lol
yeah same boat, ex was an ass, but new bf, I told him my 'rules' you break them, don't cry to me when you and I aren't a thing. @gypsy.soul2
I had an ex who did it A LOT behind my back. and it totally messed with my head and insecurities and I did give him the boot @jessicahartze I even tried compromising with him but I got zero attention r affection and the porn and stuff took priority. so I definitely know what you mean girlfriend.
@jessicahartze, you do have a point lol but I understand where @gypsy.soul2 is coming from
no, not all guys do it. I don't believe that. all guys will do it if you let it slide. guys will do as they please, and push the limits because let's face it, we forgive too easily. I on the other hand do not tolerate it. if I find it, you're gone. if I can do without porn so can you. that's just my thought.
all guys do it but don't take it personal.. it's like moth to light for them.. it can be pretty interesting though bc it's so taboo but maybe he's afraid he will hurt you in sex and doesn't know how to approach you about it..ask him.. make him talk
I don't like that either he stopped doing it at home but now he's doing it other places bothers me and I haven't been able to say nothing because he hasn't got home yet
My boyfriend use to do that. And sometimes he would be on YouTube and let's me hear whatever he's watching so I think that's all he's doing then he grabs the head phones and said he doesn't want to disturb me and he watches porn. I caught him and I grabbed his phone and threw it😊 I don't like sneaky little liars
@nesslopez.1456, I guess I get that too. I never question my boyfriend about it to have him lie about it or hide it. I just look at it as normal. I don't tell him when I do it and I wouldn't expect him to tell me either. I don't care when he does it, as long as when he is home and there is an opportunity, he try with me instead of the easier solution. It's an embarrassing situation to be called out on. Whether he is watching porn that fulfils a fantasy or fetish that he could be ashamed of, or if he doesn't want you judging him for doing it. sexual health should be openly discussed in a relationship, though. he shouldn't have to feel like he has to hide it from you. have you tried to discuss with him why he isnt more open with it?