Rant..... I'm feeling so frustrated, ever since my husband and I found out we were pregnant we made…
Rant.....
I'm feeling so frustrated, ever since my husband and I found out we were pregnant we made a deal were he would do the dishes and I would do the laundry...mostly because he always ruins either my clothes or my daughter's and and I can't take the smell from dishes.
Anyways we had my daughter's physical therapy today and when we got home we were going to go to get her wic since we have no juice or eggs, he says he doesn't want to because he wants time to relax before work I get that. I was very very tired so I laid down to take a nap, I wake up to him doing his work out, all of our dishes are dirty and he is telling me that it's my fault and that I just need to get over it and wash them myself, it's not hard, it's all in my head.
It's frustrating to me so much because he often doesn't realize how difficult things are when your pregnant, this pregnancy is so much more harder than with my daughter, he never did see me pregnant either I moved with family when I was 5 months and he didn't see me or our daughter till after she was 5 months old.
I have even been trying to do laundry but our apartment complex only has one washer and one dryer for eight apartments, so it's hard to get it all done let alone any of it. yet when he makes a mess in the kitchen he just leaves it like that, then gets mad at me for not cooking the meat he pulled out because none of the pans are clean. There isn't even room on out small kitchen table because all the crap that's left out, but when I go to do something or get upset about it he gets mad at me for getting on his case or saying that I'm being overly emotional. It's so frustrating especially because we found out how much we are getting back on taxes and he's going and already spending it when we don't have one thing for our son yet. My parents are coming up from TX and I'm nervouse for them to see how he's acting and some of the shit he does because my dad already was iffy about him till we got married last September. I just feel so overwhelmed and want to sit here and do nothing but cry, then just start breaking his shit so he understands what it's like to feel just so broken and not being able to do anything about it.
Sorry it's so long. Rant over.
Andrea·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I know exactly how you feel
lauren·
В ожидании первенца
my husband works late and wake up early so I never want to ask him to help me with dishes or anything because I know how tired he is. but I wish sometimes he realized that even though I don't work as many hours carrying around a baby makes me extra tired. and I don't always want to do everything
rosita warn·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)
Yeah I get that, my husband leaves at 2pm and doesn't get home till 11:30 pm that night....he gets up with our daughter in the am because he knows I don't get a lot of sleep, I am tossing and turning all night long, as well as that is his time with her. We made our agreement because I can't do dishes and he can't do laundry(always ruins clothes), but he's been lacking on doing the dishes and keeping the kitchen clean and expects me to cook when all the dishes are dirty and the kitchen is a mess. I end up getting yelled at or attitude because he thinks I'm either being lazy or helpless, but the truth is even now when my morning sickness has gone if I smell any of the dirty dishes I end up throughing up.
Meli·
im in the same boat... i asked my husband to move out and he got with the program he now cooks, clean, does dishes, laundry and even take kids to school and pick them up. my family feel the same way about him i known him for almost 10 years and we seperated for 4 years we got back together and got married in April my larents till this day they're not convinces he has change or ever will. but his choice either he gets with it or leave besides im the one paying bills, rent so his lost not mine
rosita warn·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (23 нед.)
yeah! my husband and I are high school sweet hearts, my dad really didn't like him in the beginning because of problems we both were having as well I had just lost my gma (she was like my best friend). my dad finally started to like him once we moved in together here in cali. the only thing is I'm the stay at home mom and he pays everything. I've told him before thst I would leave but he just through a a fit and says that it's not right that I would even say that. but I've been through so much shit because of us that I can't afford the stress or depression with this pregnancy.