Today while going to my husband's job he started telling me his uncle's always talk crap about me and him and pretty much how he had a baby with me and I was the last girl he's been with and the only one he will ever be with like its a bad thing. One of his uncles is a player to no end he's been with God knows how many girls and the other I'm not sure what he's like honestly but he has two baby mommas. As we were talking I asked him if they thought he lost his virginity to me and he says basically of course I would see nothing wrong with it if he did but he didn't he has been with 3 other girls before me, which I don't mind as long as I'm the only one now. Anyway he said their always saying it like its a bad thing and when we told them we were having another baby one of his uncles started talking crap about how we are having a baby and staying at his parents and a bunch of bullshit but he has two little girls the same age as my kids and I've never seen them have their own place they live with his in-laws and his other uncle has 2 kids as well but his baby momma has her own place and he lives with his mom. we have only been living with his parents for about a year due to financial circumstances but other then that we have always had our own place and they decide to talk crap. Another thing they talk crap about is my husband's job. My husband has an amazing job he doesn't make a bunch of money but that's just for now my husband is a chef at his other uncles restaurant currently makes 11 an hour but by next month he will be making 15 an hour and by the time fall comes around if he gets how to run it he will be running the restaurant on his own making 25+ an hour personally I see absolutely nothing wrong with that considering he's moved up so much since he started just a year ago. It's makes me so angry that neither of them take the time to listen to him and ask how he's doing they just automatically assume we are doing bad because we are staying at his parents. Sirry it's so long I just need to vent.
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yes it really is it wasn't like that before which totally blows but its OK though they will see sooner or later I think it's because we are young and they think we know nothing and are inexperienced. for only being 22 and 23 I say we are doing pretty dam well
wow. that's unfortunate to have people so set on what they assume are your shortcomings be the God parents of your children.
we just blow them off the thing is they won't tell him they will tell everyone else we can't really get away from them their our kids God parents which I would hope they would be more supportive his uncles wife is usually the one that shuts them down if they start to talk crap around us. It just bothers me that they don't take time to talk to him to see how we are doing they just assume but sooner or later they will see just how idiotic they sound. @mango44 @yahuahsdaughter
you nor your husband have anything to prove to them. if your children are taken care of and they aren't paying for anything for them, wtf can they really have to say. neither of u are inconveniencing them in any way. so next time, tell them to shut the fuck up unless they'd like to pick up an expense and pay some bills :)
you know what u do with toxic people, you flush them out of your life. simple. you dont neef anyoned aproval of how to live your life. only one judging you should be God. sounds to me like you guys got things going good for you and theres some hate. just live in peace and cut those peoples our your lives.
aw mann smh. i say you guys are too! and they probably see that as well. people just have to find something negative to say when they see other people, especially those close to them, are making them look bad or uncomfortable with their own accomplishments. just focus on what you guys are already doing :)