@laurenwardle97, aww well I'm glad he's taking responsibility and not being useless, I would say it's really good but I'm going by what I get, I'm not sure what others might say but I'd be happy with that, aww bless your mum it will be nice for the both of you if he sticks to his end of the bargain and makes sure he provides for you and baby as they are expensive lol xx

Oh wow, so 200 a month is incredibly good. He suggested it, I didn't even bring up wanting money off of him haha @mummyx316 he's just said it himself. My mum has helped me out so far... She's done the daddy role haha xx

sorry that's £80 per month lol xx

that's quite good, my ex (first child's dad) pays me £80 but that only started like 2 years ago and she's 9, 10 in June. prior to that he gave me nothing but he's so annoying I couldn't even be bothered to talk to him to ask lol I was happier not hearing from him at all. £50 a week depending on your circumstances doesn't seem too bad at all though xx

I don't want to rip him off haha xx

Oh okay. myself and my ex do it privately and do the 15% which is what you would get through the csa. its entirely up to you what you accept xx

@gemz87, my ex has suggested doing it privately and has said £50 a week. I was asking cause I thought that was steep haha x

Depends on wages. its suppose to be 15% of their wage