Okay first Appointment is coming up and I am planning on it being the Hubbs and I with our daughter, but with my last pregnancy I didn't get to tell my mom first like I wanted to because of the Hubbs instead we told his sister whom I don't talk to anymore. anyways I cannot decide if I should tell her or not (she has a big mouth) before appointment. if I don't she will throw a fit if I do she will want to go... I don't want her too and she will tell everyone. what would you do?