all pregnant women complain we're pregnant we have every right to complain doesn't matter if your early in pregnancy or…

omg preach girl preach that's what I was thinking there is no difference:) just bc we signed up for this doesn't mean it doesn't suck😂@amorasmom

Same here... I was sick first 3 months... Then my sciatic nerve was shot I couldn't walk or hardly move for 3 months now I wish more then ever to just have her and get my body bak... Haha but I still love her more then anything

exactly only difference is you feel more pain in the end but for me it sucked throughout my ENTIRE PREGNANCY @brinleysmommy

@amorasmom, are you due the 27th?

girl yes, I mean I stay sick and dehydrated. I also have multiple issues and things like that. I understand the further along you get it hurts worse I would hope so the bellys get huge! but like you said everyone has the right to comlain@amorasmom

my husband told me one day, when he was just being a dick, that I complain too much. I was like, lets see you pee 4000x a day, lets see you want to eat all the time one day, then nothing the next. let's see you not get comfortable and 0 sleep, can't breathe, can't walk, can't sit, can't lay, can't do SHIT! He shut up.

@pinkhearts1990, yes same here I was sick up until my 6th month and then right after that the pain began

@jaxonsmommy03, nope the 28th

Haha I get told I complain too much too.. But I tell them all to fuk off haha... Every pregnancy is different and it effects everyone differently

@brinleysmommy, right if u don't want to hear about pregnant people complaining then u shouldn't be here

I rarely complained. Tried to be as positive and optomistic as possible. Its honestly not that bad. Some women use being pregnant as an excuse because they are generally unhappy, miserable people. 🙊

@losmartinez, OMG yes my bf said that same thing to me idiots

preach girl preach!@amorasmom

@pretty_xoxo_giirl_, for some people it is that bad, but i would do and go through whatevr needed to happen to make sure my daughter is healthy. just because people complain doesn't mean their miserable i like to said I'm happily sick bc some times for me it does get bad. real bad.

well I can't speak for everyone I didn't complain cause I was miserable I complained because I was sick for 6 whole months could hardly breathe and was in more pain then u could even imagine it might not be "that bad " for everyone else but I can't speak for them I can only speak for me everyone else is different @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

I'm with u on that one @pinkhearts1990

Its 40 weeks 42 max. Its all tolerable. If pergnacy is that bad, wait for L&D. Its all a state of mind. I'd rather be around positive people than constant complaining all day long. . . js

I agree with u 100% @brinleysmommy

think what you want. lol, for some people it is that bad, you try being dehydrated so bad that your hooked up to Ivs I'm not talking about morning sickness I'm talking about asthma and throwing up fluids, having bloodvessesl in your cervix pop. all most of us want is healthy babies. but think what you want it can gett bad! I've passed out from this. like @amorasmom said maybe not everyone's is this bad but yes SOME women struggle horribly. like i said I keep a positive mind but it does suck knowing that you have to struggle to keep your little one healthy it's not about us being sick it's worrying what's going on with the ones on the inside.

@pretty_xoxo_giirl_,

My s/os pregnancy was a walk in the park.. She never got sick or had pain hell she said if u didn't know her you wouldn't even know she was pregnant.. She was so surprised on how rough mine was... Total opposite of hers.. And still is..

This is my third and last pregnancy & the easiest by far, I hope I can say the same for the delivary. . . .time will tell. I had morning sickness almost the entire time with my 1st son. It sucked but I went on to do it 2 more times knowing the possiblity of it being like that again. If you try to be optimistic and know it wont be like this forever you should be good. I can complain but choose to look at the BRIGHT SIDE of things. Moring sickness, being tired, the waddle, gaining weight, constant trips to the restroom, swollen feet, sleepless nights, Its all common. Im just happy its almost over and my healthy child will be worth it all in the end. Change your state of mind. Might make it more tolerable.

the whole thing is terrible don't get me wrong I wouldn't take my baby back for the world but for me my whole pregnancy sucked and it still sucks I tolerate it because I know in the end it will all be worth it maybe it wasn't that bad for u but that's you everybody is different 40 42 weeks Max yea cause that's not long at all it's only half a damn year which means I'll be sick for half that time if not the whole time not to mention if your anything like me u have extreme rib pain and back pain not to mention u can barely breathe and on top of all of this I have extremely painful leg cramps in both of my legs which makes it impossible to sleep because I can't sleep on my back nor my stomach so speak for yourself pregnancy sucks and that's only me speaking from my experience and what I'm going through @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

@brinleysmommy, I'm sorry your dealing with all that but complaining doesnt help make the situation better. . . . . . does it?

makes me feel a little better and for the most part I don't complain. I tell people what's going on. the only time I've complained is when I've thrown food up that I really wanted and yes that was petty but still. for the most part I'm positive and enjoy all the little pregnancy quirks but it does get hard, when all you want is your baby healthy.@pretty_xoxo_giirl_,

were all of your pregnancies planned? @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

Basically being pregnant doesnt give you a "HALL PASS" to complain all the time. Look at the glass 1/2 full or 1/2 empty.

nobody is saying it gives us a hall pass to complain I just feel like if I ever want to complain I have every right that's all that is @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

@amorasmom, Nope, not at all. All 3 were surprises.

right a surprise none of us really signed up for this we're all pretty much new to this some can deal with it better then others but I don't feel it's wrong to complain every once and a while sometimes people need to vent about what's going on @pretty_xoxo_giirl_

i hate that saying "look at the glass 1/2 full or 1/2 empty", look at the damn glass for what's in it! if piss was in it then you'd be optimistic that it's half emtpy. some people have it easy, some have it hard. i'm all for mindset, but mindsets only help sometimes, then reality kicks in at other time's. hormones also play a part in people wanting to complain, they just want to vent and get it all out. i'm sure every pregnant person knows it's all going to be worth it in the end.. but at the moment it's miserable at points. this app is to support people, find support, ask questions, vent.. but not to put people down or start arguments.

OMG thank you I couldn't have said it any better myself @arielray

no problem, girl! @amorasmom not really my business or argument but i just had to get that out there lol.

@brinleysmommy, and thats understandable. Throwing up sucks, pregnant or not. Luckily Ive been blessed and have not had any serious issues or scares and I totally feel for you and the issues youve had especially the cervical issues I can only imagine your stress and worries. All I was trying to say is being pregnant isnt a reason to complain. Not to you personally but in general.

I had a friend who constantly complained about her pregnacy on FB every single day. Couldnt hit the unfriend button fast enough because it was annoying and a downer to constantly read her negative post about her pregnancy. Everyday it was something. Be happy you are able to create life because there are women out there who would take every pregnancy symptom out there times 10 and still feel blessed to be pregnant and a have a life growing inside them. Im over beong pregnant, Im so close to delivary but it also feels so far away but I want to enjoy every last minute of it, big belly, swollen feet, exhaustion, baby bouncing on my bladder, rib kicks, heart burn, ect.

THANK YOU AND AMEN!!!!! I hate that my boyfriend thinks I'm just being a baby when I complain. Like dude I'm growing a human right now.. I feel like shit 95% of the time

Who started and arguement? Dont like beong pregnant and think its a right to bitch and complain for 40 weeks??? Pssssh I feel bad for you and the people surrounding you. Dont have sex, take BC, use a condom because majoriy of pregnancy symptoms SUCK.

@arielray

you have no reason to feel bad for me or the people around me. 😂 nobody complains that they are pregnant, they complain about the symptoms. i've had a pretty hard pregnancy and still barely ever complain. i feel sorry for people around you and your friend that you so quickly put down instead of support. i never said it's a right to bitch and complain, i'm saying you have no right to put down @amorasmom on a site that is used for support. hormones can cause people to feel the need to vent or complain. my baby is and always will be a blessing considering their are people in my family who can't conceive, and because babies are blessings period.

@arielray, amen girl preach!!!

@amorasmom, lol i had to block her. she decided to try to argue with me over messaging and i care about my baby too much to deal with unnecessary stress . i think she is truly the miserable one that has to put others down to make herself feel better. just do you, girl!! you can always hit me up if you ever feel the need to talk. that's what this site is for, support. (:

yes I blocked her too after her last comment I just was like she's not gonna stop trying to prove her point I've got Better things to do Lol thanks and like wise I'm always here if you need to talk ☺☺

@arielray,