I wish there was a section on this app for those mommies that don't complain. Those that are…
I wish there was a section on this app for those mommies that don't complain. Those that are grateful and here to just uplift other mommies. I understand that we are all emotional and going through some difficult situation in our lives but the less we complain the better off we are. I really feel bad for those mommies that are wanting to force their baby out when at times babies not ready yet. I may get my post deleted or mommies blocking me, I am sorry it wasn't my intention to offend anyone I just wanted to get this off my chest.
Mari·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
so... your complaining just like those moms on here that complain....
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
I guess so. I'm sorry not starting a fight. Thank you for catching that I didn't see it in that point of view. 😊
Bella Hali·
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You're right about the less you complain, the better life is. I think this app is a great place to let off some steam and get help from others who may be going through the same thing as you are. It's better than complaining to friends and family! I'm working on complaining less and being more appreciative, and it is hard!
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
@kelseys,
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
you are right complaining is a habit we all have and it is hard today stop complaining but as long as you are trying it will make you feel better @bellahali 😊
jana.bear·
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I think voicing frustrations is a really important part of emotional stability. I try not to air my negativity online because I tend to shy away from social backlash but a lot of people find it theraputic. I do agree that the number of people trying to push babies to be born early is a little alarming. But you have to remember how uneducated many people are about the potential negative effects of early birth (like learning disabilities) and it was only within the last few years that being considered "full term" was changed from 37 weeks to 39 weeks. Many doctors also pressure women to give birth on a time schedule instead of letting it come naturally. So we've been socially conditioned to want to have our babies ASAP. Also being pregnant is uncomfortable. lol
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
I agree with you but it's not necessary to complain for the smallest things but I guess everyone is different and perhaps they do find it therapeutic and I was not talking about Dr's that force pregnancy just though that want to take things in their own hands...but either way thank you for opening me to other points of view @jana.bear
missing233user·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
I'd rather birch and complain about small even big stuff other than keeping it bottled up and not being able to voice my frustration anywhere else!
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
you're right this app was build for the purpose of voicing out your opinion on anything and of Noone listens to you here who else will? I should've thought well of my post before posting it my apologies @lilanne1927
missing233user·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
IMO it's better to vent than keeping it balled up! If your good at that, great but some of us can't handle not being able to rant/vent. It's good for the soul 😊 but I do get your point. I'd love if this app had a section for venting
Dorothy·
@mrspavlides, i totally agree with you....its nice to see happy things on here especially when some of us are sad or depressed already and it kind of makes me less sad when i see positive things on her other than all tye negative things about men not supporting thier woman and drama ..i thought this app was intended for mommies to be to ask questions and share positive things not drama its not like we need the drama in our lives
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
yes, that's why I meant as well complains are ok we all complain but when it's every post you read every several of seconds it brings your mood down and you are right there are mommies hat already feel down so an uplift would be nice. @mart1122 thank you for understanding Me
Dorothy·
i mean im not that far along in my pregnancy (only 9 weeks almost 10 weeks) but i still have the same emotional ups and downs and seeing more ups are great .... seeing all the downs are ridiculous and not healthy and id hate to leave my extended family on here because of all the constant drama and problems that these problem ppl make for them selves and trying to bring others down on here when others are trying to enjoy thier pregnancy
Dorothy·
if i keep seeing more negativity then positivity i guess ill have to leave this app and find something else
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (18 нед.)
yea that's why I'm not on it as much as I used to kinda tired of seeing all these negative/complaints for even the silliest things I remove it from my phone and then realize I do have an actual question that I'm uncertain and I install it back on my phone but I may just remove it permanently this time I'm just tired of this 😕 @mart1122
Dorothy·
:-(
missing189user·
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