is it bad that I don't want a baby shower cause I'm 3000 miles away from my family and actual friends?

your welcome. happy to help :)

that sounds like a good idea. thank you @divachick94

no cus im the same way. all my family and friends live in NH or Mass. i live in Oregon. but what i did was create a baby registry at Walmart and posted it on facebook. its like a baby shower online. that way people can stop asking me what i want for my daughter and they can be part of the babys life. (: