@youcanttamebre, when my husband did that I had a laundry list of no I reminded him of all the petty shit she has done hell I just added to this list last night. I understand that's his smother but at the same Tim you have a say so in things and he should atleast respect that and if he can't then you on the right path cause grandma ain't gone play no games . Tell him you gotta sister from the east side of Detroit we not playing 😂😂😂😂

@cpoe17 😂😂😂 thank you ! you made me feel so much better he kept trying to make me feel better for not wanting her there now i feel alot better

@youcanttamebre don't you let her tell you that you are an adult and you have final say because it's your room your decision hell if you didn't want him in there they would put him out too 😂. I come down there on my own tab just to tell her no hell I love to fly 😈😈

@kenialove30 smh thats so messed up on so many levels hoe can you do for one and not the other

@youcanttamebre I'm Just glad I have a great supportive mother in law who went as far as to get us so many things for our baby... even though she's in new york and we are in Florida. Just shows who is actually willing to help and deserves aknowledgment. and whenever I start to feel too bad about my decision of not having my mom in there I just go back through her fb albums and see the pictures of everything she bought them... cause she even posted pictures of the nursery and all 😂😂😂

@kenialove30 i feel you thats how i feel my mother and grandma been the only 2 people here for me so why should his mother be in the hospital when i go in labor !! but thats messed up she didnt do nothing for you

my mom bought my sister everything when she was pregnant.. clothes... bassinet... even went as far as to buy them groceries every weeks... taking them to every appointment.. etc. Now that I've been pregnant she has only bought 2 outfits for mine.. everything else I've done myself. and HELL TO THE NO will she be in the delivery room. we haven't spoken about that but that's just something she doesn't deserve to be a part of.. I'm even thinking of just going to the hospital and not telling her.. maybe even call my dad first before her and make her feel some type of way (petty I know 😂😂) but hes been the only one who has helped out.

@_idekcats i feel you , thats how my boyfriend and his sister is they are twins i was pregnant first she didnt do nothing she got pregnant 4 months after me and brought her everything for her child but trying to tell me what go do with mines like no

My boyfriend is a twin , and his twin and his girlfriend are having a baby and my boyfriends mom yelled and screamed at us but it was just great that his twin brother was having a baby. She buys them everything they could ever want for it.

@cpoe17 i told her no multiple times jist because he say yes she wont listen to me keep calling me a little girl because im 18 so thats why i have to tell my grandmother and i really didnt want too

@youcanttamebre, make sure you tell the nurses they will also make so she can't even get in the door. My husband don't know how to tell his mother no either so you know what? I do it for him😈😈

I wouldn't let her in the room neither

@cpoe17 my mother cant come since i have younger brothers and sisters thats in school so she cant leave them, its going be my grandmother and boyfriend , idk who the 3rd person going be ! its so annoying because he cant tell his mother no i keep telling him i dont want her there but he dont listen so i have to tell my grandma that i dont so she can just shut it down

@youcanttamebre, only two-three people can be in the room anyway do you have anybody else that you would want there then it will be no room

Oh hell no after all that her ass wouldn't be allowed to even come near the hospital. It's your choice and after that I would never my mother and grandmother are in Vegas and they are comming up for the birth. You can tell the nurses that you don't want her there it will only bring stress @youcanttamebre

if u don't want her in the room, she won't be in the room. that's it. no need to stress over it.

@cpoe17 i really dont want her there i wanted my mother and grandma there but my mother lives all the way in California so its impossible ! But she think because she a pastor that she have to be there like no you said the baby wasnt his , didnt come to the baby shower , & she didnt get my child anything but wanna try to play a big role

And you tell her No'! If you don't want her there she does not have to be my MIL is a pain in my ass and she is not allowed in the room we agreed we just wouldn't tell her when I went into labor