warm bath for back pain, only Tylenol if needed. when doing a baby shower try to do a diaper party at the same time, got me 6 months worth of diapers for my first. if breast feeding get a latch consultant to help if needed and don't be like me and be like oh I'll be fine when I had a very stubborn child. I like pampers diapers and wipes and huggies goodnights for bedtime when they're older. they absorb better in my opinion. anything else? hahaha