
I feel like a horrible parent for leaving my husband. mainly because of my daughter. I'm obviously takig both kids with me. I just feel like my daughter (3 years old) is going to be shattered and so confused. and I don't know what to say to make that easier. I haven't told her anything yet. because I don't have a set date as to when we are moving. I just know its soon. this kills me. she's so sweet. and smart. But she's three....its seems as though my husband is leaving it up to me to tell her...although I read that it's best for us both to tell her together...I just want to cry at the thought of her being confused...
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
So someone contacted me waiting me to watch her son four days a week for $150/wk. I had to tell her that even if someone worked for $10/hr it only pays for a day and a half in my opinion?
I mean maybe I’d do it for $300? But the $150 I just can’t see if being worth it to me
Its never an easy thing for you or your babies but my parents split when I was 5 and because I was so young I don't remember any negative feelings about it. I also was way less impacted than my older siblings. As long as her father plans to remain a big factor in her life you will be amazed at how fast she adjusts.