is it a bad idea to throw ur own baby shower

my mom and I are throwing mine. my aunt was supposed to but just kept procrastinating so I'm helping my mom put it together now.

thats the issue im haveing now the girl who wants to throw it wants to throw it like 2 days befor my due date and under some circumstance woth my husband being millitary we might have to move back home right after i have the baby

so not only will i be prepaing for a bay to come but also a big move back to mc

nc

It's perfectly fine to throw your own.

I just threw my own this weekend! a friend did help me a lot, because I don't live near my family so I had to plan from afar and I had to fly to get here. that's also why it was so early. you should just pick the date your self and ask her to help you plan it then lol.

im wanting to say the heck with it even though its my first theres just way to much going on

Perfectly fine ! If you want something done sometimes you have to do it yourself . You can ask for help if you like but it's perfectly fine

perfectly fine! I didnt have one with my first two and now im 36 weeks with my third so im planning my own since no one was planning on doing one for me.