LATE NIGHT THOUGHTS😴😴
i dont know why some of my friends be talking about they baby fathers so harsh,they be like "hes a deadbeat,he'll never be anything good or he aint sh*t" but my thing is you knew that before you got pregnant right💁you knew what type of person he was,dont blame him,blame yourself for choosing him
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@trezelle, it might be hard because we love that persom,or care for that person..but we cant blame that person for being how they are when we're the ones that chose them.yes some part of us wants them to change but why be with someone if we have to change who they originally are.why not go for some one whose already in the character that we want
Can't blame the victim. We as humans want to see the good in people, we want to believe "he will change for me"... Lots of us have a savior complex. Sigh... I hope your friends start making better decisions and stop trying to save/change others. Trust me when I tell you it's hard to shut that complex down.
I agree 100%