Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
Trigger. Our precious boy Last night, December 8th, 2015, at 9:58pm, our sweet precious baby boy was born sleeping. We spent 5 wonderful hours with him: holding him, talking to him, singing to him, mourning him, praying for him, and weeping over him.
To sit and be helpless and watch my baby have a episode in my arms and I can't do nothing it kills me my eyes all watery. Why don't it just stop like my baby is so tiny and all I can do is hold him and pray over him...
Jasmine·
Мама подростка
mama. you need to think about it in a positive way. I'm not thrilled but will more than likely get one as well. but they need to make sure baby and you are okay first. it's for both of your safety.
Jasmine·
Мама подростка
and you can tell the drs dad isn't allowed to hold the baby put it in your birth plan
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
my baby will be fine. i wont hurt my baby but people will not tell me i cant hold him. i should have to get one... but there isnt anything positive about watching everyone else so happy to see my own damn son while nobody lets me see him
Alycia Benjamin·
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with my husband i just want to hold my baby first. i want my baby to come to us first. nothing important needs to be done right away. if necessary i would want my husband to help me hold him. i want to hold him
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
@momma_2_batbaby,
Jasmine·
Мама подростка
talk to your Dr if you're that upset. they have to accommodate your needs as a mom.
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
i know and im sorry i dont mean to be overly emotional. i think its my hormones and anxiety
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
@momma_2_batbaby,
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
why would you not be able to? i know plenty of csection mommies who's babies went straight to daddy then down to them
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
yah but dad hold the baby and your not aloud too..that's what upsets me
Amy·
Мама дочки-младенца
I had a c-section and I did skin to skin right away before my husband held her. just talk to your dr and see if they do that at your hospital.
Jasmine·
Мама подростка
hun that's why you make a birth plan they have to meet your needs. they have to allow you to hold your baby as long as there's no complications such as baby had a BM inside you
Alycia Benjamin·
В ожидании первенца
ill write it down thank you @eskawho
Amy·
Мама дочки-младенца
you're welcome. as long as there are no complications with you or the baby they should allow you to hold him.
brittany schelske·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I dealt with this bullshit twice and now I have to do it a third time the first hour of both my boys life's I didn't get to hold or see I was just as possed as u and now I get to go thru it again