im terrified of an emergency c section... im in no way okay with watching my husband and nurses hold my baby while im not aloud too.. so fucking not okay im going to be soo pissed off. i want to hold my baby as soon as he is born. im not okay with nobody allowing me to hold my own baby and everyone holding him to me and my husband getting to hold him but not me. not okay. im freaking out
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you're welcome. as long as there are no complications with you or the baby they should allow you to hold him.
hun that's why you make a birth plan they have to meet your needs. they have to allow you to hold your baby as long as there's no complications such as baby had a BM inside you
I had a c-section and I did skin to skin right away before my husband held her. just talk to your dr and see if they do that at your hospital.
yah but dad hold the baby and your not aloud too..that's what upsets me
why would you not be able to? i know plenty of csection mommies who's babies went straight to daddy then down to them
i know and im sorry i dont mean to be overly emotional. i think its my hormones and anxiety
talk to your Dr if you're that upset. they have to accommodate your needs as a mom.
with my husband i just want to hold my baby first. i want my baby to come to us first. nothing important needs to be done right away. if necessary i would want my husband to help me hold him. i want to hold him
my baby will be fine. i wont hurt my baby but people will not tell me i cant hold him. i should have to get one... but there isnt anything positive about watching everyone else so happy to see my own damn son while nobody lets me see him
and you can tell the drs dad isn't allowed to hold the baby put it in your birth plan
mama. you need to think about it in a positive way. I'm not thrilled but will more than likely get one as well. but they need to make sure baby and you are okay first. it's for both of your safety.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
Trigger. Our precious boy
Last night, December 8th, 2015, at 9:58pm, our sweet precious baby boy was born sleeping. We spent 5 wonderful hours with him: holding him, talking to him, singing to him, mourning him, praying for him, and weeping over him.
To sit and be helpless and watch my baby have a episode in my arms and I can't do nothing it kills me my eyes all watery. Why don't it just stop like my baby is so tiny and all I can do is hold him and pray over him...
I dealt with this bullshit twice and now I have to do it a third time the first hour of both my boys life's I didn't get to hold or see I was just as possed as u and now I get to go thru it again