I dealt with this bullshit twice and now I have to do it a third time the first hour of both my boys life's I didn't get to hold or see I was just as possed as u and now I get to go thru it again

you're welcome. as long as there are no complications with you or the baby they should allow you to hold him.

ill write it down thank you @eskawho

hun that's why you make a birth plan they have to meet your needs. they have to allow you to hold your baby as long as there's no complications such as baby had a BM inside you

I had a c-section and I did skin to skin right away before my husband held her. just talk to your dr and see if they do that at your hospital.

yah but dad hold the baby and your not aloud too..that's what upsets me

why would you not be able to? i know plenty of csection mommies who's babies went straight to daddy then down to them

@momma_2_batbaby,

i know and im sorry i dont mean to be overly emotional. i think its my hormones and anxiety

talk to your Dr if you're that upset. they have to accommodate your needs as a mom.

@momma_2_batbaby,

with my husband i just want to hold my baby first. i want my baby to come to us first. nothing important needs to be done right away. if necessary i would want my husband to help me hold him. i want to hold him

my baby will be fine. i wont hurt my baby but people will not tell me i cant hold him. i should have to get one... but there isnt anything positive about watching everyone else so happy to see my own damn son while nobody lets me see him

and you can tell the drs dad isn't allowed to hold the baby put it in your birth plan

mama. you need to think about it in a positive way. I'm not thrilled but will more than likely get one as well. but they need to make sure baby and you are okay first. it's for both of your safety.