@kksmommy12, wow yours wont change her diaper thats insane make him my husband actually wanted to change our sons diaper when we were at the hospital like was getting annoyed he hadnt pooped yet at hospital so they would let him change him. even now will change him if asked or sees he needs changed and he gives him his bath each night and usually one to burp him since my son just does not like to burp with me. If my husband just doesnt want to deal with ou son fussing say if my husband is tired i just plopped the baby right beside him and go to restroom or whatever he will get up cuz dont want to hear him cry. I guess I just got lucky

Trust me your not alone they all do that. "I need to use the bathroom" "can you burp her?" I think I want to eat more supper" "I need to take shower" the absolute most aggravated one is " I think she's wet or pooped and needs to be changed" he refuses to changed her because she's still " too little" like yea, right. You're right they don't and they also know that if they don't do it we will.

@kksmommy12, my SO will be holding our daughter and the minute she gets fussy he's like oh can you take her I need to do something and it's usually bullshit. I would rather do it on my own instead of thinking I have help from him when it's all bull. I'm learning to deal cause I can't leave right now even though I'm dying to!! Men just don't have that instinct I guess...

Or make you stop what your doing to handle the situation. Like no. Especially when you do everything all day/night like I do. I need time to clean the house and to tend to myself sometimes too. Men don't ever walk in our shoes..

@kksmommy12, I was literally just talking to my friend about this!!! Men don't understand they have to soothe a baby not just ignore them and hope they get quiet 😭😭😒😒😒