Yeah it really has to do with just how well your delivery goes

@dcb012, hopefully I don't tear too bad I've been doing the exercises and such to help with it but I know sometimes it doesn't always help.

@bigkitty0813, @h_mother0322 it depends on how you tear. BFing has nothing to do with it. But you're also MUCH more fertile which is why so many kids are less than 11 months apart..... I went 4 weeks after my son because I tore very little and 2 weeks after my daughter encase I didn't tear at all. My friend is at 6 months and still very rarely can because her tearing was awful

Yay for you @h_mother0322 . I got some the other day and it was much needed for me and the hubby

I'm glad I'm making it 31 weeks, just praying, still trying tell my baby father he did it

@h_mother0322, I plan on BF afterwards and dang :/ that is what my sister went through. her water broke at 25 weeks though and she was hospital bound

An I've been cold turkey for a week now because my baby daddy reason I'm at risk for premature labor so

I've heard of you breast feed after wards, you'll be back at 4 week later.

@h_mother0322, I dont know how I'm gonna survive the 6 to 8 weeks after I give birth. I have heard it hurts like crazy after 😢 so I'm getting it while I still can

😹😹😹😹 you go gorl