@nyckolle00, @dang_dridri ladies I glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks this way!!!

@love53, It's true, if your okay with that than they think they can slide with other stuff. I trust my man but disrespecting isn't an option

@nyckolle00, right! We say that's okay then next thing you know he's doing all kinds of shit. I'll kill him. Lol

@dang_dridri, I agree with you also. It's human nature to look at the opposite sex but I'm not gonna tell him I think it's okay for him to look at naked females. He can go out with his buddies to hang out but not like that.

@marie_xo, I'm very aware that he'll look at other women, BUT I'm not going to openly accept it. At a strip club these women can be butt ass naked and lord only knows what else is really on. I let my boyfriend go out & have fun. BUT a strip club is a no go! & I agree with @nyckolle00 it has a lot to do with respect and I'm not going to allow my boyfriend to disrespect me.

@marie_xo, yeah I'm not closed minded because I don't want my boyfriend going to a strip club to see a bunch of nasty ass naked girls. It's about respect and if you're looking at another girl like that then to me it is cheating and if I ever found out my BF decided to go to a strip club wed be done. A strip club is for single guys to go and enjoy themselves not for men who are in serious relationships to go fuck around. But that's just my opinion I won't be disrespected like that.

yup definitely a no... and trust has nothing to do with it but that's my opinion. I know a few who don't mind letting there bf going and later tell me how they don't understand why he cheated.

I know, & everyone has an opinion & that's how it should be. I just like seeing why people feel the way they do :P @momi2b4

I get what u mean @marie_xo but it's just my opinion

it's not about trust, it's about respect. what would your child think if he knew mom and dad went?

trust me he's gonna do what he wants whether you know about it or not. As long as he isn't cheating let him go. that's just my opinion, because you really think he's never gonna think/look at another female until the day he dies? realistically HELL NO. I think that's what's wrong with women , too close minded. @momi2b4 @haleymclain1121 @nyckolle00 @dang_dridri @graciesmom2016 @vrinconez

I do care. I am insecure as it is. why you need to go watch bitches clapping their ass dancing on a pole when I can shake my ass for you. even if I couldn't. I'm very insecure and I wouldn't want him looking at other females lusting over them. dick probably getting hard and stuff. excuse my language ,lol. I just wouldn't feel comfortable

i wouldn't care one bit... if he wanna go, go... i see it like this, if you dont trust him going why are you even in a relationship 💁💁

I wouldn't be okay

.. to me it's like your not happy with what u got at home

Take me with you and it's no problem. Have a couple drinks and enjoy ourselves etc.

take me with you

lol

i really would go

That's a definite no no!!

I wouldn't be okay with it.

@vrinconez, DEFINITELY NOT! As my man, I will NEVER be ok with you lusting over another woman. I feel that if I make that ok, then I might as well be ok with other possible outcomes. Me & my boyfriend have a pole & he throws money at me, but that's as far as we're going on the stripper adventure. Lol.

@graciesmom2016, We think alike , at first I thought I was over reacting when I amswer. I just feel like you lose respect for one another by making things be okay

Nope. Especially after marriage. I've never been okay with it, I just think it's wrong. Some ppl are cool with it. Not me 😕

It depends on the guy. I could care less if my man goes. We use to go together alllllllll the time with friends & we would always have a good time.

i was just telling you how I feel:)

if I had one I would love to go

with him and just enjoy the surroundings

As long as he takes me haha but I have no problem with him going. I trust him enough to enjoy a stranger on a pole!

@brinleysmommy, This was a topic that was put out there through our friends and I was muted by it lol

shit ice lol just take me with you I can throw some ones😂😂😂@vrinconez girl he's with you trust me a lady on a pole may look good but he wants you