I feel like I'm doing this on my own & when our daughter gets here I'll be raising her alone. I'm with the father, & he loves me & our daughter but he's not involved with the pregnancy. I had to force him to go to just one doctor appt. He doesn't ever wanna feel her move. I was living with my parents, & my boyfriend & I recently just started renting a house together. & will be moving in within the next week. I'm scared living together will make our relationship worse. He's always with his friends & his one friend me & him used to live with. Which my boyfriend still does. But he smoked in the house so I moved back with my parents. While I left most of my stuff there. Such as toaster, pots, pans, plates, bowls, mugs, cups, etc. Him & his friend use my stuff everyday. But I'm afraid my boyfriend will let him keep my stuff that I paid for.
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@mommy_faith, He did at first. Now when she moves & I go to reach for his hand he's like "I always feel her" He's always wanted a baby girl. He was so different before I became pregnant. He wanted a family. Now that it's actually happening it seems like he doesn't want the responsibility. I'm hoping it changes once she's here..
He doesn't want to feel her move? That is the best part of being pregnant! I think that if he is this disconnected and distant during your pregnancy I would expect it to be the same when the baby comes.. I'm sorry that's tough. You just need to speak your mind and tell him how you feel about everything. If he doesn't care or change then there is no room for him in your lives!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My bf moved with me to be closer to my family when I got pregnant. He has made it clear he hates living so close to my parents and wants to move. Which is fine, I don't always want to live near my parents. But we also have an 11 month old and another baby due in july. I still go to highschool and told him I just want to finish out highschool without moving schools again. I've done it too many times in my life. And it's hard enough making new friends when your a teen mom. His response is I don't ...
i’m honestly so upset. today was my boyfriend & i’s anniversary & i thought we would spend the whole day together but he decided to leave to go be with his friends. am i selfish for wanting him the whole day? :/
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Once you start living together it should change. You'll see eachother everyday. So it could be good and it could be bad. everyones different