Im tired of people telling me how ugly I got after having a baby. Yeh I gained weight, I don't cake face anymore or str8…

Who the fuck would say something like that? And they should probably take a good hard look at themselves in the mirror, I'm sure.

@njf1216, my family and friends!!! They always tell me I've lost myself! Wtf?? I just don't wear make anymore or str8 my hair unless it's a wedding or fancy dinner. Im just natural now Cuz im exhausted and raise adam on my own. Literally no time to sit for an hour everyday to fix my long curly hair to str8

They would get cursed out! I sit in my house, hair in a pony tail, in comfy clothes most days. I wish someone would say something.

@njf1216, plus girl, these moments don't come back! I literally cherish every hour with adam . Im not gna leave him in the bouncer or crib that long just to make myself fancy. Im not that greedy! So they should give me props and stop nagging

Is mamas don't have time. I've been without make up for weeks and decided to spoil myself today. Made me feel good but most of the time I'm home cleaning and cooking no one has time for that

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They need so much attention and time for the first couple of years. You will "get yourself back" when he heads off to school lol...looking back on pictures of my own mother, she looked like ratchet ass hell until I was 4. Most important is that Adam is clean, fed, clothed, and taken care of. They should be giving you props!

@katiek710, exactly !! Literally no extra time for all that. It does feel good to wear it sometimes but at this point I really don't care!

@njf1216, yes!! When he's in school, I'll have some extra time if im not working fulltime, I'll doll myself up. We are both clean and fed Hahaga so we are good! Not worried about looking like a Barbie ESP during a divorce. I don't give a damnnnn

Don't worry about what other people say. You're still a beautiful mom. Makeup and hair don't make you a beautiful person. Its who you are and your personality that counts. You're doing it right taking care of your son and that's all that matters. Happy baby equals happy mama 😊

@azmommy85, thank U girly! You're very right! I mean I still put a little bit on natural status to look normal but jeez. I can't look like a model now

I've had people say the same thing to me. If I have time to get ready then I will if not then too bad. My 3 kids come first. Its always people who don't have children that say something or the ones who would rather care about their looks then spend time with their kids and make them happy. @adamsmaaa

@azmommy85, OMG exactly!!!! The people who have said it to me are number 1.. Either not a mom or number 2... They're SO greedy!!! They care more about themselves than their kids. This one lady shops for herself ALL the time and im like what abt the kids and she's like their clothes isn't imp Cuz they will grow out of it... Really?!?! So no new outfits Cuz they grow?!?!

I think you look beautiful natural!!! and Yes you care for your baby more than you do yourself! that's ok! who cares If not one else understands!!!

@alicia3_21, thanks! I put very minimal makeup. Just enough not to look like a zombie and I literally braid my hair of tie it after each shower. Yeh that's "sad" to look at

you look beautiful! becoming a Mom you change and that's a good thing. you don't need to spend hours to look beautiful!

@alicia3_21, honestly if I still had a husband, things would be easier because I would have a helping hand. People need to understand my situation also. Thank U for the compliment 😘

Yes exactly!!! that's definitely true!! I have one but he doesn't help much 😂

@alicia3_21, I get that a lot from people but it's not like they don't play with their children for even a minute. There's a big difference between being a single mom

O yeah I definitely agree!