@swtlilangl, yes! I know! Im a stay at home mom and going through the first few weeks right now so sometimes i dont stay up to date on things. But i have no food or dirty diapers or anything like that lying around. Washing clothes has a been a thing im a little behind and picking up things but i dont an have extreme mess where nobody can walk. In a few weeks ill be less nauseous and ill have mire energy to do things and get on with things like i normally would.

she sounds like a stay at home mom in my opinion....I didn't see anything in there about working a full time job to help support the family side by side with your husband or significant other....so I can see where her opinion comes from but not everyone is gifted enough to be a stay at home full time mom people piss me off.....my house is clean....but women who down other mothers for their ability to duo things in a given time are usually the "mothers" who will soon come to realize kids can be messy and are in for a true eye opener

@swtlilangl you forgot the option of teaching your child to clean up after themselves. my house is now & was then literally ALWAYS clean. I cannot stand for stuff to be dirty! just because most mom's can't handle it, doesn't mean all mom's cant!

@lovebeingmom, exactly and no ones house is "always"clean if you have a toddler unless 1. You have the toddler in a cage while they are awake or 2. You are picking up every 2 seconds after them from the time they wake up to the time they go to bed. Otherwise there are times where things get messy...they play and they get into things it's normal.

Im currently pregnant and have two kids and try to do some things but being nauseous and tired sometimes my house can be a mess but my kids are fed and dressed and i clean up little by little

@littlemissrainesmommy 🙌🙌🙌🙌 100% agree!

I raised my nephew for the first 6 almost 7 years of his life, while still going to school... I was still able to keep myself and him clean along with helping keep my parents house clean.. Me being a first time new mom has nothing to do with it.. I was just raised that no matter what you look presentable and your house stays clean. My mom was able to do it with a kids and my grandmother was able to do it with 3 and when she had 4 grandkids living with her all under the age of 6. So you can't tell me it's impossible. Because it's not.

I needed a good laugh! 😂 oh is she in for a BIG surprise.

I completely understand why you agree because you are going to be a new mom. I felt the same way. But in time we all learn 99% of the time it isn't an excuse and all of us moms are on survival mode at times. Especially once we have more than one. @littlemissrainesmommy

I can't say that I agree with how she said what she said, but I can agree on the fact that my house is always clean & I always cook & clean the kitchen afterwards. I don't currently have my 3 yr old step daughter with me, but I had her from when she was 9 months-2.5 yrs old. I showered every day & she did too. I never had anybody to help me, my baby father was a bigger baby that she was at times lol.

Lol just wait until she walks in after a nap and she wishes the stuff smeared was peanut butter...lmao @sweetmommy26

I mean.... I personally agree to some extent.. She didn't have to be so mean and nasty and rude in the way she worded it. But I do feel like there are some people that use their kids as an excuse to be dirty and nasty.. and I definitely agree with the eating at the table thing lol but she could have said this in a nicer way.

Wow! If the baby gets peanut butter over the curtain she isn't watching the baby well wtheck!!! She is crazy! Kids are kids they are messy lol