sorry i know this may be a little to long but Well hello im Quia and i am a first time mom. Me n my bf been together for 3 years but i never could conceive but in june week had broken up for 2 months got back together august 26 and had unprotected sex same night. I had sex with someone else a week and a couple days before used condom it didnt pop i went to the bathroom afterwards had no Cemen/Nut come out of me just Pee. I had my period August 27th or 28th it was kinda short but my periods are always irregular. So Sept 7th i went to doctor just to get checked the did pregnancy test it came back negative. I missed my period at the end of sept. Found out i was pregnant Oct 7th went to doctor Oct 15 did vaginal u/s Doctor say i was 8w 0d. Im kind of nervous i know the add on 2 weeks but im 20w now n he measures 21 weeks. Im scared idk wat to do. Me n my bf dont see eye to eye because he thinks baby not his after the years we been trying. I dont talk to the other boy so idk wat to do. Can someone give me some advice please.?
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@ninjamami Pennsylvania does it like that.. & so does South Carolina.
I don't know where yall live that the mother has to pay if it's not his child. It's who requests the DNA test regardless of the results. So if the guy is the one that wants the DNA test then he's gonna pay for it whether he's the father or not.
lol a guy having pregnancy symptoms means nothing haha my husband doesn't have any, and he is definitely the father haha
@quia21 ikr, that's why I said just do the other one, it's hella cheaper lol & they just mail both of y'all the results, so won't nobody know it even happened but the 2 of you!
@quia21 yeah, but that's just how it works with them.. they say it like if the man isn't the father then they ain't gone make him pay for somebody else baby. so then thats why they make the mother pay for it.
well idk its crazy to me i havent seen to my bf in months hes pissed off badly. it hurts because we have been trying for so long. @lovemyson_610 & i dont think its fair that i would have to pay if its not his thats some bs
@quia21 they cost like 400-500 thru the courts tho.. and if he isn't the father then you would have to pay for it. if he is the father then the court would make him pay for it. my baby father has 6 kids lol so I know too much about these damn court systems for the paternity lol
@quia21 also, the guy getting symptoms doesn't mean that he's the father, I left my BF when I was 13 weeks pregnant. but my current boyfriend got the symptoms all throughout my pregnancy & he isn't my sons father.
daaaang thats alot lol yea he wants it so hes definently paying for it @lovemyson_610
im guessing men can feel when your pregnant either moody, tired, eating alot, weight gain all that. the other boy isnt getting anything but my bf gets all of that its just still hard i stress everyday trying to figure things out @mrsgeorge
@quia21 yeah, just go get the at home paternity test. they sale them at Wal-Mart & then I think it's around $200 when you mail it off.
i kno baby measurements can be off doctor said that only 5% babies measure on time. im gonna give the other boy a dna test. i pray everyday its not his. i kno my bf would be heart broken @lovemyson_610
It took me & my baby father almost a year to conceive. We split up the whole month of July, I didn't sleep with anyone but he doesn't believe me. We got back together the beginning of August. The doctor said my conception date was Sept 12. My son was measuring 2 weeks ahead most of My pregnancy. My son is now 7 months old & I still haven't done a DNA test, but now my baby father says that that's his son. During my whole pregnancy tho he said that my son wasn't his & called him all sorts of names. I still don't let me baby father see my son tho Bc of the way he treats women & his attitude towards my son while I was pregnant. If anything, just give him a DNA test & either way at least then you'll know.
yea he know about it he doesnt know how it happend either. hes an asshole thats y we dont talk. Hes not getting any symptoms but my boyfriend is getting them. then sometimes at my u/s the baby either measures a week or he measures under.
definitely tell the other guy there may be a possibility its his.
I messed up. My bf and i had had sex the last day of my last period, Sept 25. We broke up, I had sex with this guy Oct 2. I got implantation bleeding on the 7th...now idk who the father is since I confirmed that im pregnant.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My waters just broke ?
Hi mummy's I just had a pop n gush of water how long was it till u started having contractions I called hospital n they want me in to check me I only have slight period pain at moment
Hello I'm new to this but I have a serious question that is bugging me ?
If I had sex sept 25 when you I get pregnant ? I slept with this dude sept 25th that's the only day I was with him and I'm worried that I don't know who the dad is. I slept with another guy oct 4. I'm really scared and what to sleep better at night knowing that I hope it's the guy from oct 4... Someone plz help me my due date is ranging from July 9 to the 14. What is confusing is I think I got my period sept 17 or the 2...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
timing doesnt sound like his if I'm not mistaken