sorry i know this may be a little to long but Well hello im Quia and i am a first time mom. Me n my bf been together for…

timing doesnt sound like his if I'm not mistaken

Not in VA

@ninjamami Pennsylvania does it like that.. & so does South Carolina.

I don't know where yall live that the mother has to pay if it's not his child. It's who requests the DNA test regardless of the results. So if the guy is the one that wants the DNA test then he's gonna pay for it whether he's the father or not.

lol a guy having pregnancy symptoms means nothing haha my husband doesn't have any, and he is definitely the father haha

@quia21 ikr, that's why I said just do the other one, it's hella cheaper lol & they just mail both of y'all the results, so won't nobody know it even happened but the 2 of you!

ohhhh wow im really pissed now @lovemyson_610

@quia21 yeah, but that's just how it works with them.. they say it like if the man isn't the father then they ain't gone make him pay for somebody else baby. so then thats why they make the mother pay for it.

well idk its crazy to me i havent seen to my bf in months hes pissed off badly. it hurts because we have been trying for so long. @lovemyson_610 & i dont think its fair that i would have to pay if its not his thats some bs

@quia21 they cost like 400-500 thru the courts tho.. and if he isn't the father then you would have to pay for it. if he is the father then the court would make him pay for it. my baby father has 6 kids lol so I know too much about these damn court systems for the paternity lol

@quia21 also, the guy getting symptoms doesn't mean that he's the father, I left my BF when I was 13 weeks pregnant. but my current boyfriend got the symptoms all throughout my pregnancy & he isn't my sons father.

daaaang thats alot lol yea he wants it so hes definently paying for it @lovemyson_610

im guessing men can feel when your pregnant either moody, tired, eating alot, weight gain all that. the other boy isnt getting anything but my bf gets all of that its just still hard i stress everyday trying to figure things out @mrsgeorge

@quia21 yeah, just go get the at home paternity test. they sale them at Wal-Mart & then I think it's around $200 when you mail it off.

i kno baby measurements can be off doctor said that only 5% babies measure on time. im gonna give the other boy a dna test. i pray everyday its not his. i kno my bf would be heart broken @lovemyson_610

what do you mean he's not getting any symptoms?

@mrsgeorge,

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@mommaoftwo22514

It took me & my baby father almost a year to conceive. We split up the whole month of July, I didn't sleep with anyone but he doesn't believe me. We got back together the beginning of August. The doctor said my conception date was Sept 12. My son was measuring 2 weeks ahead most of My pregnancy. My son is now 7 months old & I still haven't done a DNA test, but now my baby father says that that's his son. During my whole pregnancy tho he said that my son wasn't his & called him all sorts of names. I still don't let me baby father see my son tho Bc of the way he treats women & his attitude towards my son while I was pregnant. If anything, just give him a DNA test & either way at least then you'll know.

yea he know about it he doesnt know how it happend either. hes an asshole thats y we dont talk. Hes not getting any symptoms but my boyfriend is getting them. then sometimes at my u/s the baby either measures a week or he measures under.

you'll just have to have a paternity test when the baby is born

yeah tell the other guy

definitely tell the other guy there may be a possibility its his.