Do any other moms on here not want their baby's father's family involved with your child in any way…

I feel that way .. He's just so trifling

I love my boyfriend, her father, & I want him in her life but I don't want any of his family near her... :/

girl ur not alone @seeyore

my boyfriend stands by my side with my decision due to him agreeing with what I said. his whole family smokes cigarettes with no care in the world who's around and drinks non stop plus is very vulgar and careless.. I don't want my child growing up around that but I'm not keeping them completely away. I told him the first month or so after our daughter is born I don't want them around them if they smell like smoke or have been drinking. I don't need my daughter around smokers. they smoke around me and we have said stuff countless times

I don't get how people can be so inconsiderate. My boyfriends family has a lot of extremely opinionated & I'm-better-than-you/I-can't-be-wrong attitudes.

I can't even believe what I'm reading, you're not alone im in a very similar place. After my future mother in law called me a whore, said the baby wasn't his, made racist comments, accused me of setting him up/trapping him etc. it's hard for me to want my child to even know his side of the family and he agrees.

you're deff not alone, my husbands side of the has always talked crap about me and has always disliked me for no reason what's so ever. once I got pregnant they were calling me a hoe (even tho my husband was my first boyfriend) and saying that I was never going to get anywhere. I promised myself I wasn't going to allow that kind of negativity in his life because he just didn't deserve it. My MIL keeps saying that I need to be so inconsiderate and let them get to know my son but idgaf. she's giving me just as much a hard time as them and the only reason I haven't cut her off is because she's my husbands mom. but if she wasn't I would have told her to stick her ooooook somewhere and to never say a word to me ever again.

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It's ridiculous! Hell my boyfriends mom will sit there & ask about his ex from 6 or more years ago. The one he dated in high school. & I'll be sitting there like "um..yeah. Hi? I've been dating your son for 5 years? Why are you asking about his ex whom he never talks to really?

yeah I had to rid us of his 2times gone for good this go around.wishing you the best

How'd you all cut them out of your lives?

I'm not of fan of my boyfriend's family on his mother's side but I love his family on his dad's side. I told my boyfriend that his mother's side of the family won't have much time with the baby because they are smokers and stuff and I told him if they didn't like it then I would just move away. But since I had my daughter a month ago, no of them have came to see her. Which kinda makes me mad in a way but I'm thankful I don't have to deal with them.

I dont like either side of his. :/ I'm glad you don't have to deal with them though.

My kids won't be around extended family too much from either side. My mother's boyfriend is a jerk and gets violent when he's angry (to my knowledge only to a punching bag, but I would never take chances with a newborn). My dad works two jobs, and is all about his entire house being a man cave (not a bad thing, but it's almost as if he's fulfilling teenage fantasies he never could before, which is a little worrisome), and he's a violent drunk (not that he drinks a lot, but still). My MIL is, in my opinion, the worst of all, since she was very emotionally abusive to my hubby and his brother, sometimes physically abusive. She's a nasty person and I don't want her abusing my children.

My boyfriends dad was abusive to him & his brothers. I don't want him doing that to my daughter.