My husband asked why my son's lips are purple. I said they aren't. he said well what color are they to you. I said they look just like your lips he said his lips got that color due to smoking. I said will my lips aren't that color and I used to smoke. he says he doesn't see my son in him and wants a DNA test. I said fine. now I got to pay for a dna test. ugh
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Got my BPP test and my son passed it with flying colors!! 10 out of 10. We also got an amazing face shot!!!((yes he has bilateral cleft lip and palate))
I was just on the phone with my bf telling him how I felt and he said "you're pregnant." So I caved and tested. Hmm.... Idk if it's an indent but it looks kind of pink in person. I tested with my digital and it said not pregnant though.
You know what's upsetting? I was trying something different (sexually) and it was the most fun I had with my hubby in the 3yrs of marriage...last night I wanted to do it again and he said we would...he said no...I was so upset! I cried, slept on my daughter's bedroom floor for a bit then went back to bed and cried myself to sleep....got my hopes up for nothing! 😔😭
missing150user·
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Or maybe he might have a oxygen problem? My daughters lip were purple and she had a whole in her heart also from being cold. Is he cold?
amanda·
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that is just the color of his lips. dr never said he had any oxygen problems and his heart is fine
@ryliannsmommy my husband doesnt think my son is his due to a seperation and seeing other people
missing150user·
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Oh I see. @awayne
Kassandra·
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he's lips could be like that because he's only a few weeks old my son lips would look like that also and once he hit a month they became pink.!
he's crazy why should u pay for it? he should pay for it if he wants it so bad
amanda·
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@ktwins188, his income hasnt came in yet. so right now we are living off of mine for a few more weeks
Kassandra·
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well he should wait until his income comes in so he can pay for it.
Manna·
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What @ktwins188 said. It's ridiculous for you to pay for it, unless you want to. But it sounds like your husbeast is the one with the problem.
amanda·
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@unbecomingme, he is. hes trying to find every reason to say my son isnt his. we video chat every day and I send him pictures everyday and he says that he looks at them and doesnt see him in my son. my husband and I dont live together right now. we are waiting on our home to get fixed. he barely talks to me. I feel like I text a wall. im just tired and feeling down. I feel like im wasting my time on someone who used to be my best friend and could call or text him any time of the day and he would respond right away.