Everyone keeps telling me about how when they found out they were pregnant that they knew right away what they were having and that it was like instinct. But I still think it's 50/50. And it's making me feel like a bad mom for not having the "mother instinct" about my baby's gender 😭😭
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@caitlynjaye, totally normal! Take care of yourself for u and baby ❤️
@sealion, @steph_ann @ez that makes me feel better to know that I'm not the only one. I just think I'm getting emotional over everything lol
Yea no instinct here. I wanted a girl so bad with mu first and we called it a girl, but always thought it was a boy. she was a girl lol. this one I have no clue.
I didn't have a clue. I honestly didn't. I never could figure it out. I never once said for sure what I was having. I didn't even think it. I don't think you should feel bad. I didn't have any mommy instinct or anything like that. Everyone said I should have but I got nothing. I still feel weird saying its for sure a girl now.
But I always switched from boy to girl I'm like ok I think I'm having a girl then bam I would think a boy!
Don't feel bad, It's always a 50 50 chance and I didn't have a feeling what I was having until like 16 weeks or so.
were your gut instincts about gender correct?!
Were any of y’all moms right about what you felt like you were having ?
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Both times I had no idea but I figured boys because I wanted a girl both times. This pregnancy was way different from my first so I thought for sure a girl but no he showed us he was 100% after hearing mommy and daddy talk about a girl.