As horrible as it sounds, any tips on training your significant other? I love my fiancé to death but I need to get him out of the habit of picking my son up every time he whines. It was cute when my son was first born to see him rush to his side....but now my son knows as sop as he makes a noise, dad is going to pick him up. He only does it to him & I don't think it's good. My son loves playing on the floor or wherever & can be content by himself (allows me to get things done around the house) but as soon as dad walks in he starts crying to be held.