I love that I look younger than my age. But I hate it as well. Only because I get mean mugged when…
I love that I look younger than my age. But I hate it as well. Only because I get mean mugged when people see my belly and ask how far along I am. Then they hit me with the "how old are you" question. I'm 18 but a lot of people say I look 15 or 16. I'm going to be 19 on March 1st but like omg i know that may still be young but it's better than actually being 15 or 16 and pregnant. Not that that's a bad thing. I would just rather be looked at as an adult and pregnant rather than looked down at as a minor and pregnant 😑
Kelly 🌻·
I get so annoyed by the "how old are you?" Like what does it matter? I'm a mom now, that's how old I am leave me alone lol
Christina·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Funny thing is I felt the same way with my first pregnancy and I was 28 lol. I felt like people thought I just got knocked up or whatever. I planned each of my pregnancies, am married to the person whose baby it is, and have a well established career but I still felt judged lol. Not sure why that was lol
Angela·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
currently getting the same reactions and I'm 29...ppl are just judgemental pricks sometimes dear....as long as you take care of your kid the best you can and set a good example your age won't matter 💕
Elena Lee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
I understand the looking young problem!!! I was 18 and went to pick up my sister that was in 6th grade and the teacher thought I was a student!!! It's hard to get respect as an adult when you look 12! Lol. I was 31 the last time I was ID for buying spray paint.... I am 33 now and can officially buy beer for my husband without being carded every time! I feel like I am finally on the cusp of it starting to pay off:)
Shamara·
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Lol that's funny 'cause I've said that to somebody before and they gave me this look like "okay lady, sorry I asked" look @kellynicole
Shannon·
@mtb2016, People are always going to judge. Even us in our 20s and 30s will be judged just as well. "You should do this, you should do that. Why aren't you doing this. Your baby's gonna turn out this way." My advice to you is just let it go in one ear and out the other unless it truly is helpful. As long as you do as much as you can for you and your baby, then you are going to be a great mother. Don't let others get to you. It's going to be hard, but it's going to be what's best. 💜
Kelly 🌻·
Someone I work with asked how old I am. I said I was 19 and she followed up with "so... What are you gonna do?" I was like "I'm gonna have a baby??" Like what
Shamara·
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@syou13, my mom and dad say the same thing. Like as long as I can raise my own kid then I'm as adult as it gets lol.
Zentiana·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
I'm 25 and still get carded for EVERYTHING no matter where I go.
Shamara·
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Lol. @kellynicole some people will never understand until it happens to them
missing31user·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I'm 20, with a 3 year old and having my second baby. when people find out my age you can definitely see their attitude change towards me like they're looking down on me, but surprisingly most people are surprise to hear I'm 20 and not older only because of how I carry myself. I've been doing this adult thing since 17 so people get thrown off.by it lol.
Shamara·
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@crunchymomma, my sister tells me as soon as I have my daughter I will look more older because of how much the baby will take out of me Like what about my boyfriend, will he stay forever looking young?? Lol 😫😆
Destiny Heflin·
I looked at your photos and you dont look that young lol Id think you were at least 22. Fuck what other people think! ♡ Congrats!
Shamara·
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😅😅 @dheflin1724 thanks Hun. My boyfriend is actually the one who is 22
Destiny Heflin·
lol no problem! my husband is 24 and im 19 so I know how it feels to be young and pregnant. At long as you handle your shit, there's no difference between you and other mothers!
Destiny Heflin·
@mtb2016,