does anyone else's boyfriend or husband get mean when you ask them for a back rub... I give mine one…
does anyone else's boyfriend or husband get mean when you ask them for a back rub... I give mine one everytime he needs it.. but the very few times I ask him.. he gets annoyed and mean and says no or half asses it if he does...
what am I missing here... because I don't see why it's a huge issue when I very rarely ask for one... I'm not feeling well tonight and asked for one and he got an attitude. yet... when he woke up this morning he got a massage from back to calf from me because he was sore from playing basketball yesterday...
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
tell him to shut up and rub your back or pay for you to get a prenatal massage. mine doesn't care to give them to me but I don't often ask bc I fall asleep hella quick now so I can't even enjoy it lol. @misskaecolletto
Kelly 🌻·
Mine will not rub my feet or my back when I ask... It's annoying. Like you did this to me!?
khrysta·
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mine is the same. even tho I will rub his.
missing112user·
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I very rarely ask for one. I may ask for ONE every 3-4 weeks. and half the time I don't get it. and he'd never pay for a prenatal massage. so 95 percent of the time I deal with my back pain until it's unbearable and I'm in tears. and then he still doesnt wanna do it. but he forever asks for me to give him rubs bc of being sore from work or playing basketball. and I do it. I feel like crap everyday, and I'm growing a human being and I can't even get a back rub... I find it very unfair on my behalf @gypsy.soul2
missing112user·
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like... I don't see what the huge issue is with rubbing the woman you impregnated's back. like... how rude is that to see what the hell we go through for 9 months and not once give them a back rub. @kellynicole @babyanakin
Kelly 🌻·
Men don't understand and they never will. Mine literally doesn't even try to understand the shit I go through daily I'm pretty annoyed
missing112user·
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same here. it's pretty annoying. they want children so damn badly but don't even give a damn until the baby is OUT. then all of a sudden we're the most amazing things ever because we bared their children. but during the time of pregnancy they didn't give a rats ass how much misery we felt from being sick or in pain. it's pretty unfair. @kellynicole
Kelly 🌻·
@misskaecolletto, right my boyfriend was always saying how much he wants a baby and now I'm pregnant and he's so disconnected from me. It's so frustrating I just want him to be aware of how he makes me feel sometimes. He's always thinking I'm irrational.
missing112user·
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OMG. thank you!! that's exactly how it is!!! @kellynicole
Kelly 🌻·
@misskaecolletto, exhibit A, last night he was at his mothers and I drove 45 min to get there and I walked in the door and for two minutes he didn't even look up at me didn't even acknowledge my presence... Mind you he KNEW I just walked in. Then when he realizes I'm pissed off about it he's saying shit like "you just got in the door and you're already bitching" like excuse me???? Wtf dude
missing112user·
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ugh. I just don't see how any man who loves you can act that way. especially when carrying their child @kellynicole
Kelly 🌻·
@misskaecolletto, exactly and he only shows affection when I'm upset and he feels like being sentimental like come on dude this is a hard time for me I need someone there for me
Jessica·
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Ugh, how awful! I am so thankful that my hunnie rubs my back anytime I ask him to. He has never complained about giving me a back rub, even before I ever got pregnant. I'm sorry that some men suck because you mama's deserve all of the back rubs in the world!
Brenda King·
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how do you put up with him?!