I am so sad that I can't make all the people I love and care about in my life happy. 😔 My bf really wants me to put our daughter up for adoption when she's born because he doesn't feel ready to be a parent. He gets really upset when I tell him I want to keep her.
My parents want me to get rid of my boyfriend or they will cut contact with me if I don't. I feel so torn and I don't want to lose my daughter, my family, or my man. I don't know what to do anymore.
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Keep records of him telling you he doesn't want you to keep the baby so if he ever fights for her you have proof he wanted to give her up!
You go momma. You know what's best for your angel on the way.
@mescpoulson, exactly. The good thing is we aren't living together so if he won't shape up I can easily be done with him
Well, You Know Exactly What To Do ... Its Not Fair To Your Baby To Deal With That When She Comes Into This World. As Mother's We Have Too Do What We Need To Too Keep Our Babies We Pushed Or Got Cut Out SAFE!!! EVEN IF ITS FROM THE OTHER PARENT ... MUCH LOVE TO YOU HONEY!!
If he's not ready to be a parent, show him the door. If being a mother is what you want in your heart, you know it can't be around a meth smoker that doesn't even want the baby. Its a safety issue.
Good if he is mad about the gender and doesn't even want you to have the baby he needs to be gone now!
I wouldn't have had to think of it twice he'd be gone, but that's just me
wtf? he is mad bc he didn't produce a boy that's wrong girl like i said sounds like your momma and dad have tour best interest keep your daughter:) it sounds like you love her so much already@lyricsmommy616
@brinleysmommy, @naturalbornwinner @tater4414 yeah I am ready to kick him to the curb. He is upset we are not having a boy and he doesn't want to stop smoking meth. Can't have a man like this around my baby girl
if your boyfriend and parents truly love you tey will stick around no matter what
@lyricsmommy616, You have to think about it really hard you do not want to be forced into a decision over the love you feel for your boyfriend. You will regret giving your baby up if that is not what is in your heart. i say you stick with your parents it seems like you have their support.
Do what you feel is right, but honestly if you want to keep the baby keep her.. It's a regret you'll have to live with forever and if your family will help you and support you I would keep her.
I say it is time to make the decision to love your child no matter what. If you boyfriend who helped make the baby doesn't love the baby or you enough to stay ki k him to the curb and hold on to that baby with all your heart!!! That baby needs you and you need the baby.
sorry about three comment earlier got my daughter in my hands while typing
WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T GIVE THAT INNOCENT BABY UP LOVE
honestly if you want to keep your daughter keep her. he should've known the consequences of having sex and what can happen listen to your parents girl and do what makes you happy sounds like they really have your best interest at heart @lyricsmommy616 just think long and hard girl
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
Totally irrational so please no judgement... baby daddy is over for visitation and he took Karoline's picture and it infuriated me. I don't want him having pictures of my daughter. He just posts them on social media and claims how we keep him from Karoline and what a great dad he is even though he doesn't do shit. How do I get over this mamas? I'm really struggling with it lately. I just don't want him to have any part, seeing him with my daughter disgusts me .
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
it's not about you anymore. it's about what's best for the baby