apparently boy sperm swims faster but dies faster than girl sperm so the farther the sperm from the egg the better chance the girl sperm will be the one to reach it

Lol not rude! it takes a lot to offend me. I've heard orgasms help, but those are the only ones I've heard.

I know this may sound rude but I heard the deeper they are helps your chances of a boy but you might have to research that one

True, I've just always heard there's ways that you can increase your chances of one or the other.. Timing and whatnot.

I wanted girls and got boys. =\ it's all by chance. My sons are 4 years apart. My big kid loves being a big brother but we have special circumstances (we're in isolation because I have a preemie) so my big kid acts out a bit because we don't leave the house but for the most part things aren't too bad when you have a second kid. All my horror stories are preemie related do not everyone shares my struggle.