*Rant* I remember now why I never posted much on Facebook about my pregnancy.... too many…
*Rant* I remember now why I never posted much on Facebook about my pregnancy.... too many opinionated people.😑 I decided that I should update people that I don't see or get a chance to talk to much about what's been going on and that because of no progress I'll be induced Monday if nothing happens. Well one women in my Hubby's family decided to lecture me about how induction was a bad idea and that I should let my body go naturally and being induced sucks and it also increases the chance of needing a c section, and I'll have to be attached to a whole bunch of things and that I should wait 2 weeks since that's the max anyway and I should really think of how I want my birth experience to be like. Well I basically told her that my doctor said it was just fine and that even though I'll be induced I'll still be able to have the birth experience I want with a birthing pool and all and that yeah she's right that I'll have to be monitored a little more and so will Skyler but they have monitoring devices that can go in the water. I won't be attached to anything, I'll still have an IV in my arm but it'll only be there for meds if they are necessary and I have the ability to move around as I please. Also a study has been done and it's been proven that induction has no greater or lesser risk of c-section.... Also mentioned that the doctor I have has been delivering for a very long time and is also the head of the Obstetricians. So I think I'm all set 😊 Besides... right now Skyler is already about 8 pounds and if I did wait another 2 weeks I would probably have to have a c-section anyway because he would possibly be too big to fit through the birth canal by then.
Sydney·
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I haven't posted hardly anything on facebook because I've had the same issue with family on his side telling me things. Like I posted something about loving my child whether he was gay or not and whether he believed in the same stuff I did or not and she went off about how her great grandson will be a man and won't be gay and how he's never allowed to play with dolls he'll play with footballs and said how she'd pray for people who raise their kids to be gay. Needless to say I went off on her and now we hardly talk anymore. Like how rude could you seriously be?! My boyfriend had a few choice words to say to her also and so did his mom. Like I get people have their opinions but basically saying you wouldn't accept your own blood if he were gay or thinking you have any say in what MY son plays with and doesn't is crossing the line.
Alyce Curtin·
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@scc2413, That's crazy! I'd feel the same way if my son turned out to be gay... it wouldn't matter to me, the world is different now and people just need to grow up and deal with it. It wouldn't have been so bad if she would have sent me a private message instead of posting it as a comment so everyone can see... I mean just because her experience with being induced wasn't great doesn't mean I'll have the same experience.
Sydney·
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That's what I told her, like it's not the same anymore but I'm honestly glad I know that's how she thinks now because it's more of a reason to never want her to babysit. It's also made my boyfriend more wide eyed to how she really is and that she's not as nice as she makes herself out to be. Like she has no idea how many gay friends I have and for her to openly just comment 7 times ranting about how her great grandson won't be gay is ridiculous. I agree with you though, one thing I hate is when people think everything's gunna go the same exact way it did for them. His mom always uses that card with us and I'm the first to tell her that not every situation is the same.