Question and opinion. So yesterday I had to go to the er bcuz I was bleeding and cramping. Doctors say I MAY be having a miscarriage but that the baby was still in my uterus. My doc called today and gave me some options: either I can wait this out and see what happens, I can get a d&c surgery, or I can take some medicine to help the miscarriage along. My opinion is if I get the surgery or medicine that I'll be basically getting an abortion, bcuz right now the baby is ok. Also I don't want to wonder WHAT IF my baby would've made it, I would feel so bad so I am going to wait it out and see what happens. So my question is has anyone done either of these options?
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My fiancé didn't start showing emotions and excited touching my stomach ect. Till he heard the heartbeat for the second time so about a week ago it will take him alittle bit of time to warm up to the idea cuz he's not accruals carrying the baby like we are
@jborton, I've got my mom and best friend as well. I wish my boyfriend would talk to me about it but I don't think he really understands or just doesnt wasn't too show his emotions but it makes me feel like he doesn't care. but I know he does I just wish he showed it more u know
That's no problem trust me o was a reck the first 12 weeks but I've had my best friend and mom to go to for advise
@jborton, yes and that's what I'm doing!!! Thank u for sharing your story with me😀
That's all yu can do my fiancé had a miscarriage with his ex a couple years ago so when we found out he didn't seem as happy of it so I sat down and talked to him and he told me he was scared of history repeating itself so I told him the only thing yu can do is have faith that everything will work out.. It's never good to stress over what could happen just look forward and keep faith
@babyanakin, yes they den the yoke sac. @jborton I was thinking of switching but she hasn't rely given me a reason to switch I think she just had to give me those options. they are saying I'm measuring small as well. so I'm keeping faith that the baby will be ok
I was 9 weeks when this happend we though I was 11 weeks but had the ultrasound I was def measuring smaller the doctor told me it could have been due to stress so I've just been taking it easy and trying not to stess easier said than done right but everytime I started to feel myself stressing out I just remembered its for the baby.. Also maybe consider switching doctors if yu don't trust his dignois
@christinecisneros, that makes me feel so much better. so glad things were good for u😀
I would just wait it out out first trimester bleeding is normal
I'm definitely waiting it out, I could not live with myself if I just got rid of my baby. @elenasmommy @babyanakin @halsey11 @jborton @may4jessie I'm only 6 weeks so they haven't been able to get a heartbeat but they said the baby looked ok on the ultra sound. the only thing they said was that I have blood pockets around my placenta but they said some women have them and have healthy babies
when I was bleeding a d cramping I was 5 weeks pregnant and I went straight to the er the Dr's told me I had a threatened miscarriage and I went to my obgyn he told me I was lying about being pregnant so I switched Dr's and she told me no your still pregnant I was happy the other Dr's kept saying it was my hormones so I'm 26 weeks pregnant with a baby girl I hope you'll b ok. the lady did my ultrasound couldn't find baby or heart beat so I was sad what if I lost the baby at 5 weeks but my due dates were off when I switched Dr's I was 9 weeks and the lady found heart beat and baby
if you are healthy and the baby is ok I would wait it out because the weight of the what if will always be on your heart
I am so sorry this is happening. I have had 4 misscaeges and one etopic pregnancy. . I only had one dnc. I don't remember it because I was out for the count. but I do remember the dr told me after after every misscaeges u should have a dnc. praying for you
Um I had light bleeding and cramping early on also so they did an ultrasound to make sure the baby still had a heart beat and make sure there was no blood around the baby did they do any of that for yu cuz bleeding can happen during pregnancy and be normal
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