I'm in the same boat and at the same weight. I barley eat during the day because I get busy and when I do eat it's to keep my blood sugar from dropping because I have diabetes. no diets work and I have back problems to the point I can start working out but having to stop because my legs go numb because of a pinched nerves but drs won't do anything because they say it's my weight. so I've also been thinking about surgery. I gained so much during my pregnancy it's hard and I wanna be able to keep up with my daughter. I say it doesn't hurt to ask your dr about it.