yeah I understand all that to...but girls on here drive me insane some days....why ask for advice if you know you could possible be told something you know you don't want to here

Lol i can understand both sides. if they're a new born and they're crying it's because they're hungry or need a diaper change. but if they're older than that and you know what cries mean what, then yea there's no need to drop everything and pick them up. that's my mom's problem with my nephew. she's always holding him so if he's crying and he just wants up, he won't stop until he's held.

@arijane316, some girls just got mad cause I said it's not good to drop everything and run to pick your baby up as soon as it cries....the baby won't learn independence and the baby will learn that as soon and it cries or wines mommy or daddy will be right there....they want to get all mad and act like I lm going to be a bad mom cause I won't drop things the second my daughter makes a noise to run and pick her up....and it gets me cause they will gang up on you....lol

Lol agreed ! like asking for advice is asking for good and bad opinions and then they get all bitchy and rude as fuck because they don't like what you have to say. one girl told 2 people not to comment on her post if they didn't have anything nice to say. she was overweight only 5 weeks pregnant saying that she already had a bump. all people did was inform her that the uterus doesn't even come up over your pelvic bone until at least 12 weeks. nothing rude was said at all until I told her that she was being rude and that they were right and then she deleted the comments 😂

Agree