My mom is trying to make me feel bad for not wanting her in there while I'm pushing. My mom and I tend to argue a lot and it would most likely stress me out. I just wanted it to be my fiancé and I, but she is making me feel horrible by saying she's just not going to come at all until after I have the baby. I wanted an hour after birth to try and breastfeed and bond with baby but I feel like if I don't give in and let everyone on right after I have her, they will all be mad at me. 😔
@little_1_on_the_way, that's horrible! I'm so sorry! My family is being supportive about it but if on Friday I go in and don't let her in I know I'm going to really be hurting her.
my moms the same way @lovebuggg2016 she wants to be in room but she always stresses me out. it I don't breastfeed long enough she'll like disown me, she tried to be the one to name my daughter and my sisters son. some parents need to give us space.
I'm sorry. My family won't even talk to me since they found out I was pregnant. All I have right now is my bfs family.
My mom and I just tend to argue a lot. And I know she will never let me live it down, especially since I live with her. She keeps saying I'm cutting her out, yet again I live with her and she will be babysitting my daughter while in at school. @little_1_on_the_way
Its your special moment do what you want to do. I am only having my bf and his mom in the room.
Do what you want. So what if they get mad it's about you and the baby not them..... People kill me. It's her lost if she wants to wait. Oh well no sweat off your back. Don't let that bother you. You will have a lot going on. Just focus on you and baby.
my bf's mom kept pressuring us about her being in the room when the baby is born. I said no. I just want my bf in the room with me, thats our first moments alone as our own little family.