girls... if you're going to give advice, word of advice, don't freak out the soon to be mothers more than they already are! Comfort is the key word, comfort.
That is why I left the Baby Center app group thing because the women were flat out MEAN and they didn't help you at all.. they called you stupid for asking simple first time mommy questions and then gave me answers that scared the living hell out of me!!! I hate that place.