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Beonka
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Just a rant... My BF is ALWAYS broke! He's WAAAY too financially dependent on me and honestly it's…

Just a rant...

My BF is ALWAYS broke! He's WAAAY too financially dependent on me and honestly it's beginning to become draining. He has a job but practically almost his whole check goes to child support. He'll literally come home with $100. I have to pay rent to his parents for both of us, I have to pay the cell phone bill for both of us, and I have to buy almost any and everything else we need. I'm due March 5th and he's just now starting to look for a second job....it's not like he's actively looking like he should though. I've gotten him call backs from a few good jobs and he's turned them down saying they don't pay enough. My baby barely has anything and I doubt I can even have a shower because I don't have enough to rent a hall. Oh and to top it all off I'm laid off from work so I only get unemployment. I got $362 dollars today to last me throughout the week. I gave him my card to get gas for a job interview today (which he ended up turning down) he left me $7 to eat, took my card, put $40 in the gas tank, went to a health food store bought $40 juices that he claims were for me and the baby, and then he bought himself something to eat. Altogether he spent $100 of my unemployment check, I had to pay rent which was $105 and he asked me for $60 to get him through the week. Whenever I tell him about how I feel he says "All you care about is money....that's all that makes you happy" I'm literally fed up....I'm seriously thinking about begging my dad to come stay with him until my due date because I feel me not my child will have anything staying with my BF. 😰😓😢

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babykamya2016

K!mMy 🌺

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You should show him that you tired of him not stepping up. You already pregnant you don't really need all the extra stress. I feel you I'm kinda in a situation like that too but he don't really live with me

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beezy_mcflyy

Beonka

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Every time I go to show him or tell him about it he gets defensive, says all I care about is money, says he's trying, I don't appreciate him, it bothers him that I have to pay, ETC ETC.....then it turns into a huge ass argument.....I just walk away from him most of the time because like you said, I don't need the extra stress 😒

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heartmommy2015

Arista

Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm in an extremely similar situation...hugs hun

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ladynavarro

Cindy

Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет)

You should talk to him and explain to him how you feel. If he continues to say you only care about the money then, At this point you should think about you and your baby only. It's easy said than done but you will be at peace. Good luck

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