So I'm having a little temper tantrum and I think I'm just going to skip having a baby shower all together. I don't feel comfortable with somebody else hosting it and my well off parents already complained about spending any money on it and yet they want full control of it. So I think I'm good! Maybe I'm just over reacting but I feel like there's no point in doing something if it's not going to be the way you want. Am I wrong?