so it's my fault you can't go see your sister have her baby? oh I'm sorry the bitch happens to be…

... I understand where you're upset, but I thought when doctors said not to travel it was to not change elevation. Where is your sister in law at compared to you?

Depends on how her body is. After so long for some women doctors don't want them flying or in a car sitting up position for so long

I'm a high risk pregnancy and he doesn't want me traveling at all because of how many issues I have. it's a 17 hour drive to get to where she is. she's due today but her ob said the day her baby is positioned it's gonna be a few weeks and he wants to try to see if he comes on his own. @kimberlyyyy my thing is. if he wants to go, he can. I don't have to go. and I don't want to either. both of us hate each other anyways.

Oh screw that- I was gunna say if she's in like Nashville or something that wouldn't be too bad of a drive (right? I've never actually been- my husband lived in Clarksville for awhile) but if you're high risk then that makes a lot of sense. I wouldn't want to travel that much.

@kimberlyyyy, yeah she's all the way out in Florida and we're here in TN. If she lived in Nashville then it'd be a completely different story but right now everyone is freaking out on me bc I can't travel and guilt tripping me as if it's any of my control. it's not my fault one Bit. and if he wants to go up there, he can I'm not stopping him. leave me the car and I got plenty of people to call if something goes wrong.

they are stupid. im high risk also. and my doctor couldn't let me travel for my whole pregnancy. i dont get it

now I'm being told I have to go and they don't care what my doctor said. so basically they just told me they don't give a shit what happens to me or my son, but because it's their family I have to go to pay respect. yeah how respectful to go all the way to Florida to see your sister have a baby who had no intentions of showing up when your son is born and does nothing but disrespect your girlfriend. @taniell123 I promise if I get forced. I'll be petty as fuck the whole time too. she does it to me so I'll return the favor.

im so sorry u have to be apart of such a selfish fucking family

Explain to them that you could go into labor any moment and you wouldn't want to take the* attention away from their precious baby giving birth. Get a doctor's note and tell them you care about your child enough not to risk it. That's asking a lot of someone even if they aren't pregnant.

it's just absolutely shitty that everyone else cares about one baby more than the other. I get it Im not blood. but it's his son. and they should equally love both babies. but no one is just more important than the other in their eyes. and it's very hurtful. they all pitched a fit bc we wanted to move back to SC, along with their darling little girl bitching And making my boyfriend feel guilty. then what does she do? 3 months later she up and moved to freaking Florida with her cheating ass husband. and yet we get told we're fucked up for wanting to move. I hate that it's all freaking double standards. it's okay for one to do something in their pregnancy but when it comes to mine? oh lord I have no choice but to do it because it's damn near 7 people against ME. @kimberlyyyy @taniell123 I swear I just wanna tell everyone in this family off. but I'm too respectful and yet I'm the shitty one. but at least I'm faithful to my boyfriend. meanwhile they all praise her and her husband knowing he cheats on her stupid ass.

If they already treat you differently, why give in? You'll always do wrong (or whatever their issue is) in their eyes anyway. Don't jeopardize your health for them when they're going to treat you like shit while you're there anyway.

I don't give in. I usually just seclude myself to a happy place and go on with life. it's bad enough I live here with the queen of ignorance (his mom). I keep to myself and do what I gotta do for myself most of the time. I just get so irritated at how my boyfriend is too busy being guilt tripped then takes it out on me. after my son is born I'm going back to SC where I'm treated well. he has a choice to go back with me or stay here. but my Son will not grow up to be like these people if I have anything to do with it. we were doing just fine in SC until we had to move up here. ive been miserable for 2 years bc of some of these people. and that's a side I don't need my child seeing. but I'm not putting up with this much longer. I just can't. @kimberlyyyy