I sware the more and more I think about this baby thr more scared I get. I have absolutely no clue what I'm doing. I'm already a horrible mother and I'm only 4 weeks.
oh relax your still really early when I was 4 weeks I didn't feel like it was real yet you'll get ready you still have time momma. lol
@madi844, well first you find an OB and set up an appointment, after your "confirmed" pregnant you can sign up for insurance if you don't already have some. your ob will explain what to do and get you set up with some prenatals but if you don't have insurance the prenatals will be expensive if you can't afford them yet without insurance just get some from the grocery store. I started off with prenatal gummies.
You're only four weeks so there's not really much to do right now! Schedule an appointment with a doctor around 8-9 weeks & you can go to any store & buy some prenatals & start there! You're not a horrible mother
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

Thanks for all the ❤️ guys! I think I'm in shock! Labor story in a bit I'm being attacked with visitors lol
I'm in labor
Guys, I've been in labor I guess since 9pm Sunday. .that I know.
Doc says I'm still 2cms and I'm about 60-70% softened but baby hasn't dropped completely and I just wanna cry like if she hasn't dropped all the way then why does my pelvics feel like this somebody help how do I get this baby to drop more 😞🤦🏽♀️
So I want more mommies I can talk to, about our babies or just our lives. People I can talk to who I'm not lonely all day😊 message me or comment
that doesn't make you a horrible mother....all you need to do is make yourself an appointment with an ob and they will help you with anything you need. you can ask your doctor anything.