I've been trying the "cry it out" method with my baby but I just can't do it!😭 every time she cries, I feel like I just have to hold her. It breaks my heart to just sit there and listen to her cry.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao
I just want to cry
Opinions on crying it out? My baby is 8 1/2 months old. I've tried the no tears method and it worked a couple times but now it doesn't anymore. I do squats while holding her and rock her (21 lbs baby) for over an hour each nap all for nothing. My friend said she did cry it out and by the 3rd day her baby would only cry 5 minutes and now he's totally fine with sleeping in the crib. Opinions please? I am the only one who actually raises my kid. My fiancé does not help and I have no family that helps. So it is very hard on me. Thank you Edit: because clearly some of the women on here think I'm a monster. I am an EMT. When I go back to work, I will be gone 24 hours at a time. My daughter is almost 9 months old and cries every minute she is not in my arms. As much as I want to comfort her every second of the day, I can't. And it's better I get her used to sleeping on her own now, than not letting her cry and all of a sudden mommys gone for 24 hours at a time and she completely loses it and I can't just get off work to comfort her.
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De'Ja😘·
same here
nickysmom89·
Мама сына-младенца
I tried it today too, I felt awful 😢
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
I did too! I let her cry for about 15 minutes tho! She won't let me put her down for nothing. @nickysmom89
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
Cry it out method is a 5-10 minute cry if she or he is crying more then that they more then likely want something like a diaper change, bottle, cuddles, and they may even be teething. Best to use when they are rubbing their eyes.
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
What if they're spoiled already?! Is it still a 5-10minute cry?! Lol. She just always wants to be held. Soon as I get her, she's quiet. @mah_mammi
nickysmom89·
Мама сына-младенца
My son always wants to be held as well. I blame it on his grandma 😡. He's only 3 weeks and I made sure he was changed and fed before he started to cry. He's sleep right now right after his bath without taking a bottle so I guess we're ok 😕.
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
I blame her nana as well! & my boyfriend because at the hospital all he did was sleep with her on his chest. & now she won't sleep by herself. She sleeps on me or beside me😩😩😩 I'm trying to break her from everything right now but it's not working! @nickysmom89
Jessica·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I let her cry for 5 mins of it's longer I pick her up took me forever to control myself hurts me. blame her daddy and everyone
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
Same here!! I'ma keep trying tho. @jess2impress14
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
It's hard @marcelljessica my son is very spoiled by everyone. He's also a con artist lol but it works I promise if she's spoiled start small like 2-3 minutes
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
Hahaha! I'ma try that! Thanks! @mah_mammi
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
No problem
Serena·
Мама сына-младенца
my son Joel is 3 months old , I've been doing sleep training with my son for 1 week first 2 nights he slept woke up 2 - 3 times during the night on night 3 he slept from 8:50pm to 6am kept him awake during feeding layd him down after he was done fell right back to sleep till 9:40am
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
My baby is still young! She just turned a month today so hopefully I can do the same thing. @cookie_murray
Serena·
Мама сына-младенца
my advice is to start young , my grandmother had 3 kids and she said all her kids where sleeping through the night since they where really little
Jessica·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm trying but she screams as if somebody is killing her! @cookie_murray