So I know this app should be about positivity... But honestly a lot of us are pregnant and…

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@mccokel14, talk to him about it. explain the attitude is because you feel unloved. men need feelings and emotions explained to them lol

@mccokel14, feel free to message me

@dnhmommy3, I've talked to him about it numerous times... And it's almost like he brushes off my emotions like they're nothing to him...

@mccokel14, he needs a reality check

@dnhmommy3, he does... I mean eventually I'll learn that I can be a single mom and be ok but right now I just feel like I'll never succeed. I just can't take him anymore. I've dealt with it for like 5 months now.../:

oh gosh. this is exactly what I go through. like down to a t. I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to. 💙

@mccokel14, ive dealt with it for 9 years. dont be like me

@misskaecolletto, thank you so much. I was just telling someone it sucks when a guy treats you like a queen in the beginning of a relationship and then all of sudden stops... I've tried telling him that's the guy I fell in love with and he just doesn't understand. He says his mind wonders off and he don't have time to do those sweet things anymore... But how can you not have time to simply tell your girl she is beautiful or just randomly tell her you love her and excited about the baby... Or remember opening the door for me anymore... How is that time consuming...

@dnhmommy3, I seriously just wanna go.. But idk how to leave... I've never been the heartbreaker... And I'm afraid of being alone.../:

@mccokel14, I completely understand. that's a part of a relationship sometimes. there are times where I question if my boyfriend still loves me. but he reminds me when things get tough whenever a talk (if I'm lucky) happens. that I am the reason he smiles. but my pregnancy is very rough on me as well as him. and I don't take the time to see that he's stressed out from work, with family and trying to tend to me. men are a lot different than us. but two years in and we still go strong even when it gets super tough. but if he loves you.. never doubt that hun. because that's something that does break a man. very slowly and silently. I almost lost mine bc I just couldn't see that he was trying. it may not be the way I want it. but he tries. if he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't. have you ever tried just telling him how much you appreciate him? ive been doing it here lately and it's made a huge turn around. even though it's not everyday bonding anymore like it used to be, but in the end sometimes our men want to see us be able to be independent. not for the sake of us. but in the Case of the fact babies are now involved, for our children. ya know. how long have you two been together?

@misskaecolletto, we've only been together going on a year... And that's the thing... I kind of do my own things and be independent and he sees it as though I don't want him or don't need him even though I explain that I do... And I tell him every day thank you for supporting me and your family.. Because he does work hard.. I give him massages every other night.. Candles lit and everything... And one time out of a month I'll ask for a little rub and he blows it off... I mean I would just like a little respect too..

yeah my boyfriend is the same too hun. and I do the exact same thing. but what you're going through is expected. the cupcake phase for us was over at 6 months. we'll be hitting two years in Feb 27th. sounds like he's just being a dude. he'll come around. the fact he feels like you don't need him or don't want him should speak that there's still feelings there. in due time baby girl. he'll come around but also for the sake of yourself if after some time you see no changes in respect. you have to do what's best for you. I get blown off a lot by my boyfriend. he works nights. sleeps during the day. then sometimes he just wants his space then there are times where he wants to be spending time together. I just keep my field open because I know how hard he works and sometimes I get a little needy. I'll admit it. lol. @mccokel14 but none the less.. always know your worth. and I believe you do know it. it's a matter of putting it to the test. ya know?

even if u leave him u want take care

of yalls son by yourself because with or without u he is still just as responsibable for baby as u r