RANT: so someone on here recently posted a comment after the relationship tab opened saying how they…
RANT: so someone on here recently posted a comment after the relationship tab opened saying how they don't understand why some of the women have kids with these men just to turn around and complain about them or discontinue the relationship. In addition their biggest concern was that why would women choose to be pregnant by these men because clearly those men were the way they are now before the pregnancy and that's why marriage is important before having kids.
Here is something for you narrow-minded woman to think about:
In some cases these men may have shown signs prior to pregnancy that should have been a red flag but equally some men do a full 360 turn around in personality after they find out your pregnant. On one of my pregnancy boards there are a huge number of MARRIED women, some who even already have a child with their husband get pregnant again and bam! find themselves divorcing while pregnant because their husbands decided to be a dick all of the sudden and this "family" life is no longer in his plans. Plenty of married women have these same problems as non married women but just choose not to say anything because the embarrassment to their marriage while some others divorce.
missing197user·
marriage doesnt mean they guy won't be different hearing about a baby, less likely but can happen.
LoveBugs·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Exactly @jessicahartze
Anna-marie·
Мама дочки-младенца
I hate when people say that " you know he was a bad guy " actually no its like I saw all the good in him can't change that fact we had their babies now that they changed
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
marriage won't stop them and men are good at pretending. I know from experience. idk why they choose to do this shit to us while we are growing their kids but it's total bullshit. my hubby said he left because he was scared of growing up and being a father and of losing his freedom. thankfully he's the only man to have never cheated but he used to have a huge abandonment issue.