if someone hated you and talked down about your unborn baby, would you still invite them to the hospital when hes born? what if they were family? Advice please!!!!
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Nope. I wouldn't care of it was my momma. And if he walks cause of that then he was never the man for you. We all have test that come up during certain times in life that will reveal to us the things we need to know the most. So if he chooses not to be there anymore because of your decision on this then he just showed you where you will always stand in his life and it's not first.
my sister in-law snap on me last year cause she was going through something with her husband saying negative things about me why me and my husband was at their mom house revealing to his mom what we was having she spoiled over day and took my excitement away that day and I haven't said nothing to her since and she haven't spoke either to the kids or nothing so when I do have out baby boy soon I don't want her up there and imma make clear to my husband she better stay her distance so no you not wrong I wouldn't invite them but its your decision
With my husband the only ones to show up were the people excited for us so i didnt have to say anything.... it will be the same for our son as well except minus one person because she passed away 4 yrs ago and we miss her allot
@mom13, that's how i felt :/ i just don't want to make him hate me forever for this
if your SO loves you and your child you should come first before his family thats his child as well and he shouldnt be allowing that so no i wouldnt let them come and if he has a problem with that then he needs to reevaluate the situation and him self
@babygurl, @amorasmom its my SO's family though...im scared ill lose him if i don't say they are welcome
im in the same boat its really up to you you have to be the one comfortable. they could always see the baby when you leave I think the hospital should be full of support not hurt or drama
No, let them go. If they apologize it's different but if they are constantly doing this they don't deserve the pleasure.
Nope