We just found out on Christmas that my fiancés sister is expecting. She's 20 with no job and her boyfriend pays all the bills. I will say I was 20 and didn't have a job either when I got pregnant but his family scolded and lectured me for it and still gets on me for the smallest things, even though I have a full time job to support our three year old and pay my own bills. They were so excited for her to be pregnant and are even more so now that they found out it's a girl. They act much more excited than when I was pregnant with my son. It just breaks my heart to know how negatively they still treat me and to think Hunter might be treated differently now since she's having a girl and she's always been considered the "princess."
It's always been the negatives instead of all I have done to show them and prove differently to them. Now that this is happening, it just makes me feel worse to the point where my fiancé and I have spoke about moving out of state because of all the chaos and arguing that was created from it.
We are all here to support you. I know it hurts that his family was so negative and is still. It doesn't make it any easier to deal with, but I've come to realize it's always way different when the daughter gets pregnant than when the son "gets someone" pregnant. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
ok ladys a question for u all i cant have kids but my husband i found out wants to be treated like a baby any suggestions
I also recently found out that I can't take maternity leave only having been at my job since March... I must put in my two weeks when I am ready, and be completely rehired back after baby and recovery from second c section 😰😰😰😰 I'm so worried. What if they don't hire me back, and I have a two year old and an infant and no job. I am terrified about this
So I found out my friend has herpes. She's known awhile and she's been around my baby since birth. Herpes is fatal to infants. How would you have reacted?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I've been around for about 5 years now, her boyfriend for one but yet I'm still the outsider. @rylannsmommy2016